So a couple of weeks ago my entire extended family on my side went away overseas, which would have been fine if they didn't blantently lie to me and say it was just my parents going. Come to find out when they got back my parents had also paid for my sister her husband her son AND my sisters father in law to go on this trip.
When they got back they wanted to visit my son and my step father accidentally let slip that my sister and her family went along too. At first I just said "Oh, you didn't tell me they were going too. In fact you went out of your way to make it seem as though it were just the two of you"
My Moo then tried to say she'd obviously gotten my email wrong or something to which I graciously pointed out she had emailed me the day before they left and not mentioned a word of it. My MOO and SOO are like two peas in a pod both self obsessed narcissistic types. I let that go because I wouldn't want to spend a week away with them anywhere really. It pissed me off they went out of their way to lie about it though.
Then! a couple weeks later my car broke down and my grandmother offered me her other car she no longer used, which was lovely of her. I call my MOO to say I would be in the area to get the car if she wanted to see us and she tells me "Oh no you can't have that car, yeah GMOO told me about it and I said I would rather have it as a small run around town car as mine costs a lot to run, yeah sorry you'll just have to buy one"
Firstly, I am a single mother I can't just buy a new car on a days notice. Not really even the point. This woman my MOO who by the way owns her own business has THREE cars and owns her house has just screwed me again. My Gmoo would have just handed her the car because she old and wants MOO to care for her.
She won't ever understand how horrible she is, how do I give her her marching orders when she thinks her behavior is normal?