My soon to be mil has tried to be very controlling of my pregnancy. We recently got into a huge argument because I told her I won't be finding out the gender until delivery. She proceeded to berate me and call me nasty names for almost half an hour and told me I was being a selfish evil blank and said that she has a right to know because it's her sons child too.
She then asked who was going to be allowed in the delivery room and at the hospital. Well I helped a very close friend deliver her baby and she was there and my almost mil was stressing her out so badly her bp started raising and she asked me to have her leave and she refused. So because of that I told her zach (df) my dad and my step mom (I don't talk to my bio mother) would be in the delivery room and great grand parents (my dad's mother step mom's parents and mom's parents all at least 3 hours away) Zachs sister (stb sil) and the God parents will be in the waiting room.
She proceeded to become extremely irate at which point I start crying because I don't want her there because she's so mean and nasty especially to me and says really disrespectful things about father (who she has NEVER met). She's always like this with me. I'm wondering am I wrong for not wanting her around for my labor and delivery? Df agrees with me and doesnt want her there either.
She then asked who was going to be allowed in the delivery room and at the hospital. Well I helped a very close friend deliver her baby and she was there and my almost mil was stressing her out so badly her bp started raising and she asked me to have her leave and she refused. So because of that I told her zach (df) my dad and my step mom (I don't talk to my bio mother) would be in the delivery room and great grand parents (my dad's mother step mom's parents and mom's parents all at least 3 hours away) Zachs sister (stb sil) and the God parents will be in the waiting room.
She proceeded to become extremely irate at which point I start crying because I don't want her there because she's so mean and nasty especially to me and says really disrespectful things about father (who she has NEVER met). She's always like this with me. I'm wondering am I wrong for not wanting her around for my labor and delivery? Df agrees with me and doesnt want her there either.