My DuH and his older brother are really emotionally close. BIL lives several states away and we only see them maybe once a year. DuH and BIL talk on the phone or FaceTime at least once a week. He and his wife are coming to town in a week. We had DD back in June and she took the only other available bedroom obviously. That is where they normally stayed while in town. Yes even right before our wedding and I put my foot down and said I would not stay in the same house on my wedding night and SIL agreed and they put us up in a hotel that night. All this is prior to DWIL.
So back to the situation at hand, they are coming in a week and obviously we don't have anywhere for them to stay. We've talked to both BIL and SIL about it and they were cool with it. So we've been asking them if they are staying with MIL or in a hotel. MIL's house is a 95 degree pigsty but they are staying there probably because MIL cried about them staying elsewhere. Today BIL calls DuH and says he doesn't feel like he's welcome at our house because we've not offered for them to stay with us. (Seriously WTF?) So DuH says multiple times over the phone that he would love for them to stay with us but we can't. BIL says he knows but was just over thinking it.
Does this make sense to anyone because it sure as hell doesn't make a damn bit of sense to me? The only thing I can think of is maybe BitchInLaw/MIL trying to start shit, but BIL would have probably mentioned it. Why is BIL acting all emotional about not staying with us...? Is he jealous of DD? He doesn't own our former guest room, it's DDs room! DuH acts like I shouldn't find this weird....thoughts?
So back to the situation at hand, they are coming in a week and obviously we don't have anywhere for them to stay. We've talked to both BIL and SIL about it and they were cool with it. So we've been asking them if they are staying with MIL or in a hotel. MIL's house is a 95 degree pigsty but they are staying there probably because MIL cried about them staying elsewhere. Today BIL calls DuH and says he doesn't feel like he's welcome at our house because we've not offered for them to stay with us. (Seriously WTF?) So DuH says multiple times over the phone that he would love for them to stay with us but we can't. BIL says he knows but was just over thinking it.
Does this make sense to anyone because it sure as hell doesn't make a damn bit of sense to me? The only thing I can think of is maybe BitchInLaw/MIL trying to start shit, but BIL would have probably mentioned it. Why is BIL acting all emotional about not staying with us...? Is he jealous of DD? He doesn't own our former guest room, it's DDs room! DuH acts like I shouldn't find this weird....thoughts?