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Dh and his brother had a major fight. Dh and his parents were upset with BIL over the way his current wife treats one of the children from his first marriage. SIL went over to IL's house, threw a lawn tantrum, returned all the gifts they had given them and the children recently, then stormed off.
Dh sent his brother an email confronting him, and his brother told dh that he did not want to hear from any of us ever again. (Dd and I were included in the CO.)
BIL blocked both dh and I from his FB page, and told us he was blocking us from his phone. SIL, however, never blocked either of us.
I decided that I really wasn't comfortable with so many people seeing my pictures, etc., so I blocked about 80% of my FB friends from seeing my pics. (I've decided that I want to use FB to do what I intended in the first place--to just keep up with old friends and relatives I'm close to.)
SIL sent me a message today that asked if there was a problem between us because suddenly she can't see any of my pics. I was under the impression that we were CO and that they didn't want to talk to us. (I have not heard from her since before the big fight.)
How should I respond to this? Dr. put me on bedrest for now to heal from pregnancy complications, so I really don't want a long, heated, ugly exchange with her. Part of me wants to black hole the message, part of me wants to tell her off (not wise), and part of me just wants to respond with "nope" and leave it at that.
Please advise.
Dh and his brother had a major fight. Dh and his parents were upset with BIL over the way his current wife treats one of the children from his first marriage. SIL went over to IL's house, threw a lawn tantrum, returned all the gifts they had given them and the children recently, then stormed off.
Dh sent his brother an email confronting him, and his brother told dh that he did not want to hear from any of us ever again. (Dd and I were included in the CO.)
BIL blocked both dh and I from his FB page, and told us he was blocking us from his phone. SIL, however, never blocked either of us.
I decided that I really wasn't comfortable with so many people seeing my pictures, etc., so I blocked about 80% of my FB friends from seeing my pics. (I've decided that I want to use FB to do what I intended in the first place--to just keep up with old friends and relatives I'm close to.)
SIL sent me a message today that asked if there was a problem between us because suddenly she can't see any of my pics. I was under the impression that we were CO and that they didn't want to talk to us. (I have not heard from her since before the big fight.)
How should I respond to this? Dr. put me on bedrest for now to heal from pregnancy complications, so I really don't want a long, heated, ugly exchange with her. Part of me wants to black hole the message, part of me wants to tell her off (not wise), and part of me just wants to respond with "nope" and leave it at that.
Please advise.