"no offense but...
I wasn't planning on visiting" was mils response to me when I told her I wouldn't be free for her to "come by" and drop off a "few things" until Sunday. As annoying as the "no offense" comment was, she...
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MIL wants to babysit all three grandchildren at one time. Nieces are 3 years old, 5 months and my LO is 10 weeks. She babysits both nieces 5 days a week and has one or both several weekends a month. I...
View ArticleMIL issues again....some fail UD: pg 4, pg6, pg9, pg 10, MIL text pg 14
So... MIL again. We have been in school for 3 weeks now. I finally get to go back after having to take a break for 2 years. My husband is going as well. We have class two nights a week where my...
View ArticleWhat can we do? (If anything)
Evening all, Wonder if anyone can offer some advise or words of wisdom? My husband has a cousin who around 10 years ago divorced from his wife, they have a son who is now 13. They live in the same town...
View ArticleI just got put on TO? Debil Post pg 7, my comment pg 12, update pg 13
BG: Me and my MOO has never seen eye-to-eye when it comes to religion. This is a huge problem that she can't seem to move past. My MOO moved earlier this year, and has been begging for me, DH, and DD...
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New thread - Thunderkiss's drama llama ding-dong. -Update 4, I think they're...
I'm making a new thread because my husband has the direct link to the other one, and I want to hold my cards close to my chest just in case. I will post more about that after our counseling session...
View ArticleNew to group. Is this the Dealing With Inlaws Board?
I was referred to this (hope this is the right one) group by my birth board after yesterday. Here is a little back ground. My older sister is in a very controlled relationship. In short, she isn't...
View ArticleDh's SIL
I am an old member with a new profile. Dh and his brother had a major fight. Dh and his parents were upset with BIL over the way his current wife treats one of the children from his first marriage. SIL...
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Need help, things came to a head, newest UD 77,79,90,93,95,101
I created a new ID for anonomity. I did not anticipate having to post again until my baby was born but some things happened last night that changed that drastically. My DW and I have spoken at length...
View ArticleMIL co sleeping with LO * update pg 4
My MIL is in town and staying with us this week. DH and I decided to let her babysit tonight to go out with some friends. We just came home and I go to get LO out of his crib but he's not there. Turns...
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Lawn tantrum next? Text msgs included
Background- MIL has a bad case of baby rabies, boundary stomps, fed LO first food, disrespected us as parents, told us how she does things her way and know better than us when it comes to raising kids,...
View ArticleAre we over-reacting to MIL interrogation? Update, pg 12, 18, 21, 23, 24, pil...
Short BG is that MIL asks a lot of questions and has a lot of opinions. A typical phone conversation is MIL rapid-firing questions, and DH or myself answering the questions. Then the conversation is...
View Article"You're a good mom" BEC??
BG: My FIL and I had a serious falling out a year ago, and since I've had him unofficial LC. I know before things came to a head he was becoming by BEC. Think boundary stomps into my personal life and...
View ArticleList of expectations? Long sorry UD: list on pg 3
Hi everyone, I'm usually a lurker here but I have a question I was hoping some if you could give me an opinion on. I'm due Dec 4th and a FTM. I have spoken with my DF about this in depth. I have spoken...
View ArticleMil thinks baby is hers...
I live in a different state from my family and the same town as my in laws. I'm 33 weeks with my first baby and first grand baby to my parents and in laws. Recently my mil has become very controling...
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How could I do this to heeeerrrrrrr!?!?!
Mostly lurker, but I knew I'd eventually be posting because I'm totally BEC with my dad's wife, and I finally snapped. So the question is, did I overreact? and do I really need to sit down "to build a...
View ArticleSorry, post deleted (couldn't find the delete button)
Sorry, I didn't realize it was a question-only board. I'm not being sarcastic. Thanks for letting me know.
View ArticleWho's right me or dh?
BG: my dh & I met, married & had our ds within 2 years time, I'm almost 37 he's 33, we decided there was no time to waste. My mil is a passive aggressive a-hole which I learned very shortly...
View ArticleMIL obsessed with husband and baby!
To start. My MIL is nuts. I had her on t/o a few times for months at a time. When I saw it straining my marriage I tried to make peace, but with a lot of groud rules. For a while, she seemed to be a...
View ArticleWhat to say? Trigger
I cut off my mom in May\2014 here's a short bg of why: -Verbally abusive since my parents got divorced when I was 5-6. Examples: Your worthless, disgusting, stupid, fat and you don't need school your...
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