So I have been asked by DF to I apologize to my mil today because she found out I wwas having a "sprinkle" thru her Fb invite. My friend offered to throw me a little sprinkle shower since I'm having a DD this time. We have a DS already. It was going to just be a few friends but then we decided it would be better to invite the mil and aunts. Well we decided this Monday afternoon and the invites were sent. Last night DF comes home asking If I had sent out fb invites for a shower and why didn't I call and talk to his mom about it first. Well turns out we have a family deal that day so I now have to change the date if I don't just cancel it all together. DF is upset I didn't talk to his mom first and that she found out on fb about the shower/sprinkle. So I now have to go apologize for the way she found out and not running it by her first and find out what day will fit in her schedule. A little background. Mil and I don't have he greatest relationship if a relationship at all. A lot has happened this pregnancy and we are working on building a relationship. They weren't happy we decided to have a second baby before marriage and didn't talk to us for over a month. We settled that nonsense and had a long talk and explained our reasons for why we decided to expand our family before marriage. They seemed ok with it. We are getting married next August and she has offered to help
Out with things which is nice. Although we had to change our date bc they have a prior engagement the weekend we had planned the wedding. No big deal. But again bc I didn't talk to her about my plans things had to be changed. DF brought up the wedding date change last night when he told me I wonder why his mom doesn't like me because I do "stupid shit" like this. Her finding out about the shower via fb and having to change wedding date. They did give us some money toward the wedding, we didn't ask for it and only accepted bc they really wanted to, it was the same amount they gave DF 3 sisters. So I was ok with changing the wedding bc I do want them to be able to be there. As far as the shower thing goes... She wasn't planning anything for me I'm not really sure why i needed to run that by her first!?! Also DF and I have been together for 6 years. I left my whole life and family to be with him 2 states away. We have a beautiful 2.5 YO DS and a DD due in January. We have our issues but we are in a good place better than we have ever been.
Out with things which is nice. Although we had to change our date bc they have a prior engagement the weekend we had planned the wedding. No big deal. But again bc I didn't talk to her about my plans things had to be changed. DF brought up the wedding date change last night when he told me I wonder why his mom doesn't like me because I do "stupid shit" like this. Her finding out about the shower via fb and having to change wedding date. They did give us some money toward the wedding, we didn't ask for it and only accepted bc they really wanted to, it was the same amount they gave DF 3 sisters. So I was ok with changing the wedding bc I do want them to be able to be there. As far as the shower thing goes... She wasn't planning anything for me I'm not really sure why i needed to run that by her first!?! Also DF and I have been together for 6 years. I left my whole life and family to be with him 2 states away. We have a beautiful 2.5 YO DS and a DD due in January. We have our issues but we are in a good place better than we have ever been.