So my mom has been on a TO since Augustfor many reasons, pretty much she is a drunk and I dont want her around my children. In October I was in the hospital for Pre-E with my last pregnancy and she showed up and it was horrible and I went off on her. Since then it has been radio silent, awesome.
Now, my sister is pregnany and I hosted the baby shower. It was fine, I was polite but didnt converse with her in any way. Now the problem is it is my BIL birthday party and med school graduation this weekend and my mom and Sfil will be there. I dont think my mom will cause much of a problem, unless she gets drunk-which will happen, what am I thinking! But my Sfil is a grade A asshole, he will more than likely try to pick at me and my husband and badger us. We are already not taking the girls ( one of which is 7 months and they have never met) I dont know how to handle it when it happens? I am going to do my best to not even be near them, but the party is at my sisters house. I wont be able to avoid them the whole time. I am already prepared to tell them "this is not the place" but I am not sure that will shut him down. I know the best answer will be to just leave, but We are driving an hour and a half to celebrate with for my BIL and I dont want to ruin it for him. So ladies, help me please? How do I handle it?
I have background on here and can link if wanted? And can add some noms about Sfil if needed or requested. Thanks