First post. Hope your llamas are hungry. VERY long
Small BG: My MIL has never liked me. Ever. I don't think it's because she is particularly attached to my DH, she just a bitter person. While I don't care for her either I have always tried to be civil...
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Wise women of the DWIL I need advice. I have bg around here somewhere but I'm on my phone so I won't be able to link it for you so I'll just give you a short summary: -GMIL refuses to talk to me or...
View ArticleDh stepping up finally!!! Woohoo
So for anyone that knows my background, I hate my mil. She disrespected me and undermines me constantly. My husband finally gets it! And is calling her today to have a "talk" with her. Telling her we...
View ArticleI need help. I have a duh, how do I get him to be a dh?
I have been a lurker for a few months, but have never posted anything. I really need some advice and I like how you ladies tell it like it is. Alittle bg-my dh have been together for 11 years, married...
View Articleprepare your torches DWIL....
I don't even know what to say about this.. http://m.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-china-23124345?fb_source=timeline&ref=profile
View ArticleSerious anxiety about Saturday!
So my mom has been on a TO since Augustfor many reasons, pretty much she is a drunk and I dont want her around my children. In October I was in the hospital for Pre-E with my last pregnancy and she...
View ArticleDH needs your help RE FIL
We decided to spend our summer vacation budget in DH's home town this year. It is a tourist town and we both went to uni here so have a lot of friends and family here. We found a great deal on a two...
View ArticleMIL asked to change my csection date
Found out my little boy is refusing to flip so Dr had decided a csection is our best option. We scheduled it for next Friday morning. After my appointment today we called our parents to let them know...
View ArticleBoundaries set but duh resisting
I have been setting boundaries with disrespecting relatives. SIL didn't like it and doesn't talk to us!! Awesome!! B and wife invited themselves over for 5 days. I gently reminds we're raising our...
View ArticleMy Baby Doesn't Exist
I have another post dealing w/MIL, here: bg The newest thing happened this eve. We got a call from a cousin of dh's. (I've never met this person, in 10 yrs of marriage). MIL has used this person as a...
View ArticleNow I'm the bad guy,
And, I thank all of you for that! :D Dd will be 8 months old this week and she's caused quite the drama already! Before she was born, I had issues with my own family about the "new" baby. She was the...
View Articleproblems with my dad....sorry in advance for it being so long
BG- I am my dad's only child. I have an older sister but her dad passed away when she was little and my dad raised her like his as well. My dad has been on and off drugs and in and out of jail my...
View ArticleShould we end TO/LC with MIL and how?
I read a lot, but very rarely post here. I have BG out there, but I can't find the link to it, I know it's from April 2012 if that helps anyone help me find it? BG Cliff's Notes are: MIL couldn't...
View ArticleNarc sis and FBIL? *trigger*
Where to start...my sister and I have never been too close, she is a huge narc (ex: when I told her I was pregnant her reaction was, 'wow, great! So anyway, I'm writing a script for a movie about my...
View Articleguilt trips from cross-country FOO
My DH and I live across the country from my FOO. We have a 14 month old son. We moved out here about 2.5 years ago, after living in the same state as my side of the family through college and the year...
View ArticleAre you kidding me
I have had this on going problem with the bf's mother. She can say all this shit, can poke you in the eye, and step on your toes..and im told "that is just her personality" "that is just how she is"...
View Articlenew here in law advice needed
Let me start out sayin that I do not have a good relationship with any of my husbands family excpet his two borthers. (ages 14, 20) Like some of you have seen in my other posts my husband is deployed....
View ArticleI feel REALLY weird after that phone call. Am I right? My spine needs...
Hi ladies of DWIL....I've learned so much from this board over the past few months and it is really helping me. I only have one family member that's an ongoing "issue" and it's a tricky situation for...
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Does your husband know you come here?
I've been on BBC for 6 years. This board is where it started. It was the first place that didn't make me feel crazy and that made me feel okay with creating distance between myself and toxic family....
View ArticleBIL stupid comment
Hubby and I had our gender reveal on the 4th. After the party we called my husbands side of the family starting with his brother who is 1500 miles away. We have a DD already so when Dh asked what do...
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