So DH and I are renting out of IL'S house until ours is completed its being built at the moment. I just came home with baby less than 2 weeks ago.
It's been a bit chaotic I'm very independent and love taking baby with me everywhere, he's EBF too so I don't want him to be hungry without me somewhere.
I passed out at my mom's last night after getting really bad food poisoning and basically hugging the toilet. Woke up to a call that I'm baby hoarding and being selfish from DH, not for his sake (heaven fing forbid he wants to bond with LO), but because MIL was crying because I don't let her hold him enough and I don't pump so other people can feed them. DH has already threatened to just give him formula after I've worked so hard to have an amazing BF'ING LO.
Sidenote: even when I'm visiting my family I've made it clear no one's getting to see very much baby until he gets immunizations with it being cold and flu season. It really should be me and DH bonding until then imo. Just because we rent from IL'S I don't feel obligated to give them baby time, it's less than 2 weeks since he came into the world wth!.
DH said I have to come make a full apology to IL'S if I don't his putting all my stuff in the driveway and will burn all my houses down. I don't really get that threat it's pretty ridiculous, but nonetheless isn't helping my already anxiety over the situation.
Should I have to make a formal apology? Or is that unreasonable/crazy?
It's been a bit chaotic I'm very independent and love taking baby with me everywhere, he's EBF too so I don't want him to be hungry without me somewhere.
I passed out at my mom's last night after getting really bad food poisoning and basically hugging the toilet. Woke up to a call that I'm baby hoarding and being selfish from DH, not for his sake (heaven fing forbid he wants to bond with LO), but because MIL was crying because I don't let her hold him enough and I don't pump so other people can feed them. DH has already threatened to just give him formula after I've worked so hard to have an amazing BF'ING LO.
Sidenote: even when I'm visiting my family I've made it clear no one's getting to see very much baby until he gets immunizations with it being cold and flu season. It really should be me and DH bonding until then imo. Just because we rent from IL'S I don't feel obligated to give them baby time, it's less than 2 weeks since he came into the world wth!.
DH said I have to come make a full apology to IL'S if I don't his putting all my stuff in the driveway and will burn all my houses down. I don't really get that threat it's pretty ridiculous, but nonetheless isn't helping my already anxiety over the situation.
Should I have to make a formal apology? Or is that unreasonable/crazy?