To announce a CO or not? (trigger)
I'll try to keep BG brief. My FIL was an absolutely shitty father to dh growing up. Like, multiple McMansions out on the coast, while dh grew up in poverty (except for summer visits) and MIL worked 2-3...
View ArticleChristmas Vacation problems, update pg 9, again pg 14, 19
Background: DH and I have been together for 5 years and the entire time of us dating we have been to my families house at Christmas and every family reunion. We have been to one of his family reunions...
View ArticleIf You Are Being Abused
I am posting here anonymously. However, I have a history on this board as I have posted before about some of the issues with my husband. His emotional abuse has caused issues with my family and in...
View ArticleProbs with sister re aging and ailing mother.
My mom is getting quite elderly and her health is really fragile. She lives with husband and I (for 12 years) but after recent hospitalization I didn't feel qualified to care for her right away. Now...
View ArticleGot An Apology in the Mail Today. UD PG 4, 8, convo with SO 13, Death of...
SO and I are working through a very rough patch. Our issues center around one problem that cannot be resolved. His mother. She has been overly pushy and opinionated, PA, boundary stomping, and has gone...
View ArticleWhy should I have to apologize?!
So DH and I are renting out of IL'S house until ours is completed its being built at the moment. I just came home with baby less than 2 weeks ago. It's been a bit chaotic I'm very independent and love...
View ArticleMIL THINKS MY HOUSE IS HERS "TRIGGER" MIL RESPONSE PG5
Hi I've posted here and there but never my own thread. So Sunday afternoon my Dh, 4yo Ds and 2months old Dd were at home, Dh was holding dd while I was cleaning the kitchen and preparing dinner. I...
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So exhausting
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a49857916/newest_26_boundary_pushing_36810131420?cpg=25#c2471690849 Since the wedding, I have noticed a steady decline in my parents (dad and smom) attempts at...
View ArticleNot Comfortable With PIL Driving LO an hour away
Help me DWIL! I need to know if I am being unreasonable, or if I should make this my Hill to die on. Me and DH use his parents to watch our DD (21 months) on Saturday afternoons so we can get couples...
View ArticleNot FOO/IL-Marriage Problems
If you don't want me to post here that's fine, I'll delete. Or one of you admins can. I just already know I value your guys' opinions, even if you did ream me on my last post. Tonight my friend came...
View ArticleIL's requesting formal mediation
I'm usually a lurker here, and have learned a great deal from you ladies over the past few months. Now I'm feeling overwhelmed by this newest development. Background: My IL's are manipulative, boundary...
View ArticleHit the fan! Update pg 3, 8, 9, 10, texts 11-13, 14, 16, 18
My husband and I both got a text from MIl today. I'll link BG in comments. Very very disappointed in you and OP. I had a procedure in hospital yesterday and not even a text message. You both have very...
View ArticleSIL/MIL tried to hijack shower, UD p2, 4, 8, 13, 14, 27, 30- FOO drama 34...
Hey Ladies, I have been lurking for awhile and occassionally offer support for other people, but this is my first post. BG: I met DH in college, which was 2.5 hours away from our hometowns. We really...
View ArticleContinuation of MIL and BIL issue. Sent her a text.
DH and I talked about confronting the issue with MIL and BIL. DH just wanted to leave it alone. He lied and didn't tell MiL the real reason of why we were not letting SD come over this weekend (because...
View ArticleWhat do I say?
My little sister M (18 this past sept) lived with us for three years. She moved out this past July to finish school early where my mom lives. (District requires less credits. It also had a LOT to do...
View Articlenot about IL but family
My sister is being a complete bitch! I honestly hate her! Im having my son on Wednesday and ill be in hospital for a week because he has a heart defect and a cleft. So it will be out of hospital...
View ArticleILs invited a house guest - to MY house.
ILS are CO for being assholes. Well, they CO us because DH finally stood up to them. The only contact we have had with them are PA emails they send us on birthdays and holidays. We BH. ILS live in...
View ArticleI'm annoyed. UD on ILs, 9, 12, 14, 15, 17, 20, 25, 34, 37 41 46, 47, 50
I'm not too sure if I can link the BG, but one of the GOs said it was okay to update. In one of our sessions, my therapist suggested to DuH that he should call his parents and let them know holidays...
View ArticleHuge step in the WRONG direction! Long.
So let me start by saying I know I have a slight DuH problem, this was pointed out to me on a previous post, and although he's not completely where he needs to be he's doing much better and we're...
View ArticleWhat am I feeling about this?
Previous poster, unrelated background regarding in laws so won't link. Current issue is with my own mother and father. We see them maybe once a month. They generally irritate me mildly, mum asks silly...
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