It started the day my son was born three and a half years ago. My husband talked me into letting my MIL in the delivery room. As soon as my son was born my MIL tried to take a pic of my sons naked penis. Every time she comes to visit she insists on giving him a bath or go to the bathroom with him. Most times I can alleviate the situation by locking the bathroom door. I dont let my MIL alone with my son because i am unsure of what to do or if i am just being paranoid.
MIL saying she was going to take my son out of the country with her on vacation. Me, my husband, and our son do not have passports. MIL does our taxes so she has LO's SSN. It really rubs me the wrong way.
MIL often refers to herself as mommy to my son. Forces my son to call her boyfriend "grandpa" and her son my husband needs to refer to him as uncle. (DH does not call him anything other than his first name. They have been a couple for 20 years, but couldn't do anything because he was still married. ( MIL divorced FIL to be with this man. His wife died 4 years ago.
We moved 2000 miles away for my husbands job and now my
MIL comes to visit five times a year. They stay at a hotel because her boyfriend is not welcome to stay in my house. They try to come during major holidays and my sons birthday. My husband just allows them to come whenever.
The last visit she said she would rent a car seat for her rental car for my son. I have told her she cannot take him anywhere without me or my husband.
We went to an air show and my MIL took my sons hand and walked away. I caught up and tried to get his attention so I could take a picture of him and before I could take a pic my MIL say hey Wyatt look at grandma and he did and when I said no, look at mommy he said no, grandma wants me. We left right after that.
She tries to FaceTime us at least 5 or 6 times a day, everyday to talk to my son. She tries well after his 830pm bedtime, nowing how late it is where we live. She knows the time difference in any of the countries she visits. She spends most of time traveling the world.
MIL saying she was going to take my son out of the country with her on vacation. Me, my husband, and our son do not have passports. MIL does our taxes so she has LO's SSN. It really rubs me the wrong way.
MIL often refers to herself as mommy to my son. Forces my son to call her boyfriend "grandpa" and her son my husband needs to refer to him as uncle. (DH does not call him anything other than his first name. They have been a couple for 20 years, but couldn't do anything because he was still married. ( MIL divorced FIL to be with this man. His wife died 4 years ago.
We moved 2000 miles away for my husbands job and now my
MIL comes to visit five times a year. They stay at a hotel because her boyfriend is not welcome to stay in my house. They try to come during major holidays and my sons birthday. My husband just allows them to come whenever.
The last visit she said she would rent a car seat for her rental car for my son. I have told her she cannot take him anywhere without me or my husband.
We went to an air show and my MIL took my sons hand and walked away. I caught up and tried to get his attention so I could take a picture of him and before I could take a pic my MIL say hey Wyatt look at grandma and he did and when I said no, look at mommy he said no, grandma wants me. We left right after that.
She tries to FaceTime us at least 5 or 6 times a day, everyday to talk to my son. She tries well after his 830pm bedtime, nowing how late it is where we live. She knows the time difference in any of the countries she visits. She spends most of time traveling the world.