I have a couple recent posts about fmil and my upcoming birthday party.
I know this is a SO issue at this point, but all my history is on DWIL. He usually gets a gold star, so I don't know why this is happening.
SO now wants to invite his mom. I said no. He came up with several reasons he thinks she should go. I said no. He says we wouldbe adding gas to the fire by not iinviting her. I said we are preventing a new fire by not inviting her.
I finally told him if she goes, I will stay home with the baby.
He seems to think he is going to change my mind by having a ctj with his mom (without me and LO). He just left for his mom's house. I told him even if she apologizes, it won't change a thing because she would only be doing it to get something in return. I don't know what else I can say to make him understand I DO NOT want her there. I don't think he was taking me seriously when I told him I wouldn't go to my own party.
Where do I go from here?
I know this is a SO issue at this point, but all my history is on DWIL. He usually gets a gold star, so I don't know why this is happening.
SO now wants to invite his mom. I said no. He came up with several reasons he thinks she should go. I said no. He says we wouldbe adding gas to the fire by not iinviting her. I said we are preventing a new fire by not inviting her.
I finally told him if she goes, I will stay home with the baby.
He seems to think he is going to change my mind by having a ctj with his mom (without me and LO). He just left for his mom's house. I told him even if she apologizes, it won't change a thing because she would only be doing it to get something in return. I don't know what else I can say to make him understand I DO NOT want her there. I don't think he was taking me seriously when I told him I wouldn't go to my own party.
Where do I go from here?