My in laws have been on a modified timeout for 7 months. After plans to get together for 4th of July to watch fireworks failed, they have been cut off. DH and I have even gone so far as to call block their phone numbers to our phones.
I had a unicorn moment, and I'm wondering if the call block is too extreme. It has been really nice not having to stress about them contacting us, because all contacts create conflict. Unicorn moment is gone.
DH has gone from a DuH to being totally on the same page and a great supporting husband.
However heres the part is driving me crazy. I dream about them all the time. Some of the dreams are positive like the relationship we once had, other dreams are me venting and being extremely confrontational towards them. Do or has anyone else have this deam issue. I'm guessing a lot of it is because I never took the opportunity to really tell them why they were on a time out and then why they were cut off. It's nice to have them out of our life. Suggestions for getting them out of my dreams? Anyone brave enough to interpret why I'm having these dreams?
I had a unicorn moment, and I'm wondering if the call block is too extreme. It has been really nice not having to stress about them contacting us, because all contacts create conflict. Unicorn moment is gone.
DH has gone from a DuH to being totally on the same page and a great supporting husband.
However heres the part is driving me crazy. I dream about them all the time. Some of the dreams are positive like the relationship we once had, other dreams are me venting and being extremely confrontational towards them. Do or has anyone else have this deam issue. I'm guessing a lot of it is because I never took the opportunity to really tell them why they were on a time out and then why they were cut off. It's nice to have them out of our life. Suggestions for getting them out of my dreams? Anyone brave enough to interpret why I'm having these dreams?