My ILs are CO from me and LO. Have been since June. However, my H has spoken to his FOO (mainly
his mom because his dad doesn't want to talk to him) maybe three times since then, because of some things they were all involved in together.
Quick BG: I have an OOP against my FIL but my H thinks that some time in the future we will all be able to go to family counseling (with his family) and get together like old times. I don't know how he thinks this will ever happen...
Anyway...this last time he met up with his mom (everything is all figured out now so there's no reason to meet up anymore) she gave H a bday card for LO with a giftcard in it. I don't want anything to do with them so I don't want to use the giftcard. H, on the other hand, wants to use it.
How do we go about this if the ILs are CO from me and LO, but H thinks they are on a TO until the OOP is expired?
his mom because his dad doesn't want to talk to him) maybe three times since then, because of some things they were all involved in together.
Quick BG: I have an OOP against my FIL but my H thinks that some time in the future we will all be able to go to family counseling (with his family) and get together like old times. I don't know how he thinks this will ever happen...
Anyway...this last time he met up with his mom (everything is all figured out now so there's no reason to meet up anymore) she gave H a bday card for LO with a giftcard in it. I don't want anything to do with them so I don't want to use the giftcard. H, on the other hand, wants to use it.
How do we go about this if the ILs are CO from me and LO, but H thinks they are on a TO until the OOP is expired?