It has recently been brought to my attention, that my grandmother has left my oldest DD (currently 16) everything in her will. I have 2 other children (currently almost 10 and almost 1) and my sister, the only other grandchild, also has 1 child (currently almost 1)
I was the golden grandchild and it caused serious issues between my sister and I that are still having ripple effects today.
I am really concerned that ODD recieving this inheritance is going to cause major problems with her siblings and her cousin in the future. And I am wondering if there is a way to mitigate the damage that might occur.
There is no way for me to TO her or CO her, since my parents and my family voluntarily share a home, and she is my mothers mother.