my husbands brother creeps me out and I don't want him near kids. He has never done anything alarming, I just get a weird feeling from him. I can't really nail down one reason why other than he is just socially awkward. He is 26, never had a girlfriend, and still lives with MIL. He has been in community college since hs graduation. He asks a thousand questions, often making you repeat answers as if he didn't get or believe you the first time.. but still somehow comes across like he knows everything. For example, he came to visit us this week (they live cross country thank goddddd) and he spent upwards of two hours researching the best place to get a rental car. DH finally got annoyed, kicked him off the computer, and reserved him one in ten min. BIL then spent forever bitching about how DH didn't get the best deal. Big deal, MIL is paying for it anyway and she isn't the type to worry about a few dollars here and there. I am convinced she sent creepy BIL here so she can enjoy her last week of summer vacation in peace bc he is so damn annoying.
I was livid when I found out he was coming, as DH works all week and I stay home. We recently moved into a small 2 bedroom apt while building new house, so we are crammed already. All four of us slept in one room the first night, baby woke everyone up, and I flipped out about my house is not a hotel, and DH backed me up and told BIL he had to be out of the house all day, as I am trying to raise kids here, not entertain UNINVITED guests. He also made it clear to him that trips like this wont be happening again. BIL complained about how MIL made the reservations and told him it wold be a good idea, blah blah blah. It has taken him an hour + to make eggs everyday this week (I refused to cook/entertain bc he was uninvited). It then took him another hour to eat and clean up. Wtf two hours for breakfast?? He then spends two hours showering/getting ready and researching on the Internet what he was going to do that day. Taking notes on different restaurants in the city, etc.
When our first was born creepy BIL never held him, or interacted with him. The most he did was stare/observe him creepily. DS is two now, and he still doesn't know what to do around him nor does he interact with new baby.
Husband knows how pissed I am about this visit and understands bc BIL annoys him too and H agrees i shouldnt have to babysit him. What he doesn't know is how much BIL creeps me out-to he point I never want him to stay with us ever again. That would mean he would probably never visit us again, as us asking him to stay in a hotel would probably really insult him. Is this justified? Am I being too harsh? Would this stuff creep you out?
I was livid when I found out he was coming, as DH works all week and I stay home. We recently moved into a small 2 bedroom apt while building new house, so we are crammed already. All four of us slept in one room the first night, baby woke everyone up, and I flipped out about my house is not a hotel, and DH backed me up and told BIL he had to be out of the house all day, as I am trying to raise kids here, not entertain UNINVITED guests. He also made it clear to him that trips like this wont be happening again. BIL complained about how MIL made the reservations and told him it wold be a good idea, blah blah blah. It has taken him an hour + to make eggs everyday this week (I refused to cook/entertain bc he was uninvited). It then took him another hour to eat and clean up. Wtf two hours for breakfast?? He then spends two hours showering/getting ready and researching on the Internet what he was going to do that day. Taking notes on different restaurants in the city, etc.
When our first was born creepy BIL never held him, or interacted with him. The most he did was stare/observe him creepily. DS is two now, and he still doesn't know what to do around him nor does he interact with new baby.
Husband knows how pissed I am about this visit and understands bc BIL annoys him too and H agrees i shouldnt have to babysit him. What he doesn't know is how much BIL creeps me out-to he point I never want him to stay with us ever again. That would mean he would probably never visit us again, as us asking him to stay in a hotel would probably really insult him. Is this justified? Am I being too harsh? Would this stuff creep you out?