So last dh and i heard from mil she was moving. I found this odd since no one on dh's family said anything to us of this, yea mil never moved, this was a pulling at strings move on her part trying to get us to break and let her see her grandbaby, good try but no luck for her.
So today lo and I ran some errands at ended up at the mall. I was talking to a friend of mine who works in the mall on her lunch break and she goes omg your mil is here and walking towards us! I handed lo to her and told her to take him to the back. Mil comes to me and tries to hug me (at first i thought she was trying to strangle me LOL LOL) she puts on this whole act infront of all these mall gawkers about how she misses me and the boys and blah blah blah. I finally said in a low voice to get the fuck away from me before I call the cops. She then makes a huge scene of why cant i forgggggiiiiivvvveeeee her she was only trying to look out for us and she loooovvvvessss us and will do annnnyyyyyttthhhhhhiiiiinnnnnggggg to start over. I roll my eyes and walk away from her and chill in the backroom with my lo and friend as we sat and swapped crazy mil stories.
Before this, mil had called my dh and said she had all of his 'shit' at his house. He told her no my stuff is at gma's (old highschool things, basically junk that he obviously doesnt want) mil told dh "no i went to gma's the other day and took it all back to my house, so if you want it you need to bring lo to me' dafaq???!?!?!??!??!?!!?!? dh laughed and said well after 9 years of not looking at that shit you can by all means throw it and hung up.
And last but not least yesterday lo and I walked to get the mail and there was a package there. I bring it home, no return addy nothing just addressed to dh. Dh of course tells me to open it (assuming it was one of his many ebay purchases.....i think i married an addict LOL jk) so i open it is and it is literally a bunch of shit for lo, clothes that of course are too small but she has no idea, picture frames, toys, all sorts of shit. Part of me wants to return it to mil but another part wants to just donate it and send her the receipt but i havent decided which avenue to take, a very selfish bitch side wants to burn it in our firepit, take pictures, and mail those to mil.
Also we have had to pretty much co/lc gma as well. She became a flying monkey in the form of not out right asking but hinting if i would ever be able to let go and forgive and so forth and she started to truly favor lo over my ods to the point i actually called her a bitch for calling my ods a brat after he was playing with lo on the floor and accidently dropped a toy on lo's belly (actually causing lo to burst into laughter) After that incident we have not spoken to gma and that was almost a month ago now.