Thank You and Post from the Debil
I mainly just lurk on this board, but you DWILers are a tremendous help for me in dealing with my ILs and FOO. I learn so much from all of your posts. I just wanted to tell you "Thank You." I saw...
View ArticleHow to deal with MIL's BF this holiday season?
This year we have been talking about visiting our 4 families briefly over the holidays and not doing any overnights which have proven to be very stressful in the past. I am learning how to deal...
View Articlehow old before out of town visits?
How old would your kids have to be before you let them go 5 hours away to stay with grandma? My kids are 6, 3 and almost 1 and my mom constantly asks for them to come stay with her in a different...
View ArticleMonster-in-laws.....VERY LONG
After reading some of the stories here I am so glad (and sad for ya'll with similar problems) that I don't stand alone with the monster-in-law. So i wanted to share my story/ frustrations with my...
View Articlereturn to sender or throw away
MIL is BSC and we have a long history. We've decided to totally cut her off, she keeps sending cards to my children and I've returned to sender for a year and she all of a sudden is starting to send...
View ArticleXPosted OT DH wants to join the Army
I posted this on the M&R board and had my ass handed to me. But whatever. DH has expressed interest in joining the Army and he is of course trying to convince me of it. I have a lot of concerns...
View ArticleIs this weird?
I posted the other day about my mom. I'm the one with the sister who recently passed. So when my sis died my mom didn't have a working cell. My sis's bf gave my mom my sis's phone number included. I...
View ArticleUpdate..changed locks and now co
Since my last post..doing what people advised wasn’t enough. My mom has turned into this woman I don’t know at all. She had said some hurtful things that I could have forgotten, but the last one made...
View Articlesacrifices for our child
I just need to hear if im overreacting? Bg: Me and df live 16 hrs away from my foo. My mum is the only one who has met ds, whose 3 months old. Sis is 5 years older than me My mum offered to fly me and...
View ArticleOT - preemie question
My best friend is probably going to be giving birth tonight, about 6 weeks early. Everything seems to be ok, she just seems very excited to meet her parents and decided to grace us before...
View Articleholidays
Who do you buy gifts fo at Christmas time?? How much do you spend for each of your children?? How much for extended family members (parents/ inlaws/ sister&brothers ect) I started planning our...
View Articlehere llama llama llama! I got some num nums for you
So last dh and i heard from mil she was moving. I found this odd since no one on dh's family said anything to us of this, yea mil never moved, this was a pulling at strings move on her part trying to...
View ArticleAm I being crazy?
*Long time lurker here and active on other BBC boards, but new SN to protect identity* BG: I used to think I had the most wonderful IL's in the world. We saw them once a month for dinner or drinks and...
View ArticleIn need of advice! TO or CO? I'm going for CO.....
I'm copying and pasting some of my old posts in my birth club as I was redirected here. ONE: I'm 99% sure my mom (or dad) stole my military card. Its magically disappeared from my diaper bag and any...
View ArticleBEC with Aunt **Trigger**
Okay, first time poster here. I've been lurking for a few months and commenting here and there over the past couple of weeks. Every time I've considered posting, I've read a thread that made me think...
View ArticleAll right, which one of ya'll posted this? (trigger mentioned)
http://gawker.com/this-brutal-obituary-is-a-reminder-to-be-good-to-your-c-1286582748?utm_campaign=socialflow_gawker_twitter&utm_source=gawker_twitter&utm_medium=socialflow
View ArticleAsking for a friend…no, really!
So I have this friend who's pregnant, and her sister has major baby rabies, wants to be in the delivery room, calls it her baby, wants to be able to name it, the whole deal. The problem for ME is that...
View ArticleI know I'm a total BEC but...
I can't stand when MIL post my pictures of LO on Facebook. Example, tonight I post 3 month picture on Facebook, I also sent her the picture just to have and she posted it on Facebook! Also she's the...
View Articlebest of "what if......."
So, ive got a theory... Bsc has to be a cycle along the lines of a woman who repeatedly finds herself in abusive relationships. With that in mind, i was thinking what if i had continued my relationship...
View ArticleObituary
This obituary actually appeared in our local paper today. If someone could tell me how to upload a photo I will gladly post one to go with the article....
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