So, ive got a theory...
Bsc has to be a cycle along the lines of a woman who repeatedly finds herself in abusive relationships.
With that in mind, i was thinking what if i had continued my relationship with my ex...what dwil issues would i have faced? What would my posts look like?
So lets have a little fun...i'll start.
Hi, im kdecker32648. I'm in my early-to-mid 20's, and my SO is ten years older than me.
Im having a problem with my FFIL.
He is the absolute epitome of arrogance.
My SO seems to think he walks on water, and i just don't get it.
He butts in on everything...
Seriously, he handles SO's bank account, he scouted his apartment for him, he is rude, condescending and just gross.
Last weekend we went to visit Ffil and fsmil in SO's hometown.
We couldn't stay in the same room.
I was in tears because i was so uncomfortable, and felt so unwelcome...i mean, we live together!
FF to the latest issue.
SO and i have been arguing because we are house hunting in *new city* and OF COURSE ffil HAS to take over.
He insists on picking out houses even if they are way out of our price range, and we have to go meet him there in 2 weeks for him to drive us around!
Ive even started to get the feeling ffil is going to try and make sure my name isnt on the house.
Ugh.
SO doesn't seem to understand my thoughts on any of this, and refuses to do anything on our own.
Its line he is blind to his father's asshattery...would you believe that pompous old fuck had the nerve to say in conversation that he has to handle everything for mr. Kdecker32648....like he was doing him a favor?? I had to point it out to SO, but he STILL wants ffil involved. Ugh.
I don't know how much longer i can take this.
Ok im not sure if this was a good idea...now im stabby.
Next? :)
Eta to fix title for clarity
Bsc has to be a cycle along the lines of a woman who repeatedly finds herself in abusive relationships.
With that in mind, i was thinking what if i had continued my relationship with my ex...what dwil issues would i have faced? What would my posts look like?
So lets have a little fun...i'll start.
Hi, im kdecker32648. I'm in my early-to-mid 20's, and my SO is ten years older than me.
Im having a problem with my FFIL.
He is the absolute epitome of arrogance.
My SO seems to think he walks on water, and i just don't get it.
He butts in on everything...
Seriously, he handles SO's bank account, he scouted his apartment for him, he is rude, condescending and just gross.
Last weekend we went to visit Ffil and fsmil in SO's hometown.
We couldn't stay in the same room.
I was in tears because i was so uncomfortable, and felt so unwelcome...i mean, we live together!
FF to the latest issue.
SO and i have been arguing because we are house hunting in *new city* and OF COURSE ffil HAS to take over.
He insists on picking out houses even if they are way out of our price range, and we have to go meet him there in 2 weeks for him to drive us around!
Ive even started to get the feeling ffil is going to try and make sure my name isnt on the house.
Ugh.
SO doesn't seem to understand my thoughts on any of this, and refuses to do anything on our own.
Its line he is blind to his father's asshattery...would you believe that pompous old fuck had the nerve to say in conversation that he has to handle everything for mr. Kdecker32648....like he was doing him a favor?? I had to point it out to SO, but he STILL wants ffil involved. Ugh.
I don't know how much longer i can take this.
Ok im not sure if this was a good idea...now im stabby.
Next? :)
Eta to fix title for clarity