So I'm currently going through my first miscarriage. I admit I'm devastated. I'm not taking it well. I tell my mom because she has suffered a loss and I needed support. Big mistake. All my mom could say was I want to come see you (I already told her I just wanted my DH) it's my fault you lost your baby because i lost one. This brings up bad memories for me. Well your sad about your baby I'm sad I lost my job (because that's the same thing right).
Now I know that I'm really touchy right now and if you look at me funny I get pissed off but this is my loss my grief my pain. (And my DH but not hers). This has nothing to do with you. I think a long TO is in order. I need space. I need to deal with my loss and heal with my husband. After saying all this she even had the nerve to ask if she could go to my follow up appointment Monday when my doc will confirm in fact I lost the baby and that I don't need a d & c. No thank you. I will go alone. My husband is in training and cannot miss one day for any reason or your fired so he can't go which I'm ok with. Am I wrong for being so angry at my mom is it just the grief and hormones or is a TO in order?
Now I know that I'm really touchy right now and if you look at me funny I get pissed off but this is my loss my grief my pain. (And my DH but not hers). This has nothing to do with you. I think a long TO is in order. I need space. I need to deal with my loss and heal with my husband. After saying all this she even had the nerve to ask if she could go to my follow up appointment Monday when my doc will confirm in fact I lost the baby and that I don't need a d & c. No thank you. I will go alone. My husband is in training and cannot miss one day for any reason or your fired so he can't go which I'm ok with. Am I wrong for being so angry at my mom is it just the grief and hormones or is a TO in order?