This is my loss not yours. Trigger. FOO.
So I'm currently going through my first miscarriage. I admit I'm devastated. I'm not taking it well. I tell my mom because she has suffered a loss and I needed support. Big mistake. All my mom could...
View ArticleParents in a cult like church and younger siblings
I'm posting this because I hope to get some good advice to give to a friend. My friend S's parents are in a cult like religion that is very controlling of the adults and the children involved in this...
View ArticleHelp me NOT be that SOO/SIL (TRIGGER)
BG: my SIL got pregnant just after I did, and we shared a lot of our pregnancies with each other. We made plans for our babies to spend time together, divvied up hand-me-downs, etc. Then, a few weeks...
View ArticleThanks to this board... I said something wonderful to FOO
Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a43612861/so_livid http://community.babycenter.com/post/a44315200/interesting_conversation_with_sil More:...
View ArticleDesperate...*TRIGGER*
I have a major MIL problem. Any and all advice is appreciated, and I apologize for the length of this post. I created a new account so I could be annonymous. Background: My DH and I have been...
View ArticleHelp/advice needed badly
So, I know that usually posting here is because you have serious issues with your inlaws or FOO, so I'm sorry if this is the wrong place for this (please tell me where to post it then!), but DH and I...
View Articleweird situation with birth family (long sorry)
Lets see if i can bg this in a nutshell: I was born into a poor fam of 7 siblings and put up for adoption on birth day. Fostercare then to fam for adoption. Birth fam tried to get me back at that...
View ArticleHow often do you let MIL visit?
I know there are plenty of grandparents that show absolutely no interest. I really do sympathize. My own father gives me no attention so I get it. Anyway, MIL is friendly enough. When she comes over...
View ArticleHow to deal with smoking relatives
Hey ladies. I am wondering if any of you have had to deal with this uncomfortable situation: the heavy smoker relatives. Here's the short BG for my situation: My mom smokes up to two packs a day, my...
View ArticleVery hurt by grandmother
I am currently 27 weeks pregnant expecting my first child. This baby was an unexpected, but welcome surprise. My boyfriend and I are not married, but I am financially secure, have a master's degree as...
View ArticleMIL has done it again
I have background on here somewhere that I can link if necessary, it's not too relevant but it shows more of FMIL's personality. She's never done anything too terrible, it's mostly just been passive...
View ArticleSilly family feud!! Need advice
This is so silly I can't believe it bothers me, but it does, and here it goes... Last year when I got pregnant with my first lo, my sil (who I was really close to) suddenly changed. She stopped...
View ArticleFuture IL's hurtful comments towards my pregnancy (LONG)
SO and I have been together for almost 4 years and have a 3 month old. Our pregnancy wasn't planned but still welcomed. SO's family is very opinionated, which is fine, but they have no filter and like...
View ArticleI just want to call her out on all the bs! Problems with both MIL and SIL
Long time lurker here and this bg is long and goes WAY back! Ok so first of all hubs and I have been together for 8 years, married for 3 and I am pregnant with our first kid. So MIL is bsc! She has no...
View Articlemother on time out keeps calling over and over (long)
Long story sorry, my son will be 15 next week. He plays very innocent and sweet but I caught so many inappropriate things he has done (constantly lies, stole from his stepbrother and step cousin,...
View ArticleIn laws want to do everything for us and I don't want it! Am I crazy?
Please tell me if I'm being a unappreciative jerk. I have a wonderful mil I know I'm so lucky and I really do love her. My husband and I come from completely diffrent backgrounds his family is in my...
View ArticleMy husband cheat me
I am in shock! My husband had signed a year ago 90,000$ credit for a boat without my permission. He told me the boat is for re-sale and he did not buy it. I have founded loan agreement for buying the...
View ArticleAm I BEC, or do these comments have deeper meaning?
Been lurking on this board for a few months, new account for privacy... No BG on here. Been with DH almost 9 years, been married almost 7. Just had our first baby, DD 5 months. Might be relevant was a...
View ArticleFunny letters to CO/problematic relatives
That you'd never ever send of course. Write your own! The funnier the better. Here's one from me (I'm not that funny though, just fyi). Last week we got a letter similar to this from MIL regarding...
View ArticleMIL advice...
ok my mil is a nice woman but she has some issues that need to be sorted out before this baby is born in January. First of all MIL and FIL both are heavy smokers in the house, so they get mad that we...
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