ok my mil is a nice woman but she has some issues that need to be sorted out before this baby is born in January. First of all MIL and FIL both are heavy smokers in the house, so they get mad that we dont visit. (We live 300 feet from them on the same land. ) second of all they are boh major hoarders (not garbage, but just stuff! all over the place) third off she has way to many dogs that are not potty trained and pee on everything so the whole house smells like dog pee (BAD!)
My fiancee tried talking to her about how if they dont clean up their ouse this baby will not be alowd in there. She resorted to blaming everyone else because we dont do it for her. (shes 68 and has a few health problems, but we can only help so much because we have to take time away from things we need to do n our own home) I cant go in there because im afraid that if I spend to much time in there that i'll hurt the baby (im 23 weeks pregnant). Before I got pregnant, my fiancee and I tried to help clean but they got mad and wanted to keep every little thing and not throw anything away, or when we cleaned the floor up of dog pee it would only last 2 -3 days before it was horrible again.
I dont know who to talk to because I feel like nobody is listening and I dont wanna say anything else about it to her since shes one of those people that posts everything on facebook. Need advice big time...