If you've been following my post for the last week you would know how much of a bitch my MIL is and how much my DH isn't on my side...if you haven't here is the post
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a45829876/im_not_her_child?cpg=7&pd=-1
Well, my husband hasn't been eating and he finally came clean to me last night and told me he is stressed out because I am pushing his mom away. He was crying which made me feel kind of bad but it was somewhat funny that he finally feels the pain I've been going through. I was telling him how I felt and how I think it's BULLSHIT that his mom demands things from me, doesn't ever communicate to me until she wants something from me, posts pictures of my daughter on her FB even though I've asked her not to, how I hate that she invites herself and some how my husband still doesn't get it that he needs to be on my side. His mom emailed him yesterday while at work at said that she feels shut out and pushed away, and she wants a relationship with my daughter just like the one she has with her other two grand kids. Okay? I'm not denying her of that. What pisses me off about that is she emailed him that at work and then he messed him up for the rest of the day and he couldn't focus on work. Stupid.
So were calling her tonight and I am dreading it! What should I tell her?
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a45829876/im_not_her_child?cpg=7&pd=-1
Well, my husband hasn't been eating and he finally came clean to me last night and told me he is stressed out because I am pushing his mom away. He was crying which made me feel kind of bad but it was somewhat funny that he finally feels the pain I've been going through. I was telling him how I felt and how I think it's BULLSHIT that his mom demands things from me, doesn't ever communicate to me until she wants something from me, posts pictures of my daughter on her FB even though I've asked her not to, how I hate that she invites herself and some how my husband still doesn't get it that he needs to be on my side. His mom emailed him yesterday while at work at said that she feels shut out and pushed away, and she wants a relationship with my daughter just like the one she has with her other two grand kids. Okay? I'm not denying her of that. What pisses me off about that is she emailed him that at work and then he messed him up for the rest of the day and he couldn't focus on work. Stupid.
So were calling her tonight and I am dreading it! What should I tell her?