I've been a member of this board for quite some time and recently changed my screen name due to mil trying to find me on every social media site possible. Anyway, there's a ton of BG on my history with her and it's not great. DH and I recently ended her TO, but the contact is very infrequent.
Today mil sent me a text stating: Do you have a picture of (DS) that I could have and use 4 Xmas cards? Thanks I appreciate it
Last year everyone thought that he looked like baby Jesus
Last year she had a long TO shortly after LO was born so DH and I hadn't talked to her for months. She seen LO two days after his birth and that was it. I had no idea she used LOs photo for her Xmas cards to send to her acquaintances; today is the first time I'm discovering this. I'm assuming she used his birth announcement photo.
Anyway, I want to respond with something along the lines of "oh, you sent Xmas cards of our DS without our knowledge or permission?" Or should I just ignore? I need advice! Although she has been doing well with backing off the last few months, this really pissed me off, and obviously because I've had a negative history with her boundary stomping.
Today mil sent me a text stating: Do you have a picture of (DS) that I could have and use 4 Xmas cards? Thanks I appreciate it
Last year everyone thought that he looked like baby Jesus
Last year she had a long TO shortly after LO was born so DH and I hadn't talked to her for months. She seen LO two days after his birth and that was it. I had no idea she used LOs photo for her Xmas cards to send to her acquaintances; today is the first time I'm discovering this. I'm assuming she used his birth announcement photo.
Anyway, I want to respond with something along the lines of "oh, you sent Xmas cards of our DS without our knowledge or permission?" Or should I just ignore? I need advice! Although she has been doing well with backing off the last few months, this really pissed me off, and obviously because I've had a negative history with her boundary stomping.