I love my husbands little sister. She is almost 4. Sometimes a littly whinny but all in all a sweet kid. The problem is my mil tells her that she can spend the night at my house all the time. Gets sil sooo excited to come stay with her "nice-y" (what sil calls my 2 year old daighter) when I tell sil she can't she is CRUSHED. Cries for an hour or more because she wants to stay and play with nice-y. Honestly if mil asked if sil could stay over I would not mind at all, but she tells me that I am letting sil stay rather than asking... I feel bad for sil but I refuse to be bossed around. Yes I'm young (21) and dh and I got together/moved in together right after high school, but that doesn't mean she gets to tell me or dh what to do. Dh says to let sil stay, its not the little girls fault, but I just don't want to give mil the satisfaction of getting her way
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