what would you do? trigger?
Right before bed last night I took my 2.5 year old to the bathroom before bed, and she told me her "hiney" hurt. I asked her where (she refers to get whole bottom as her hiney) and she pointed towards...
View ArticleMy aunts evil and I dunno I feel like @#$% am I dumb?
I just saw my grandma on skype for the first time in a year! Â I've never been away from her for over a few days so I should be THRILLED right now to have seen her as we are living in totally different...
View ArticleFirst CO, feeling kind of shaky.
A few weeks ago I posted asking if I had a moral obligation to allow family members (my mom) in my sons life. You guys gave me some great advice and I stoped all communication with my mom including...
View ArticleTo BH or not
I've had my brother on LC for over a year after I finally had it with how our relationship only seemed to work when convenient for him. I have bg here somewhere about the deciding factor. I had a...
View ArticleTo accept or not?
New to this board and needing advice. Some background, but I will try to be really brief.. Relationship with MIL has been shaky for.. well, the entirity of her being MIL. I used to be really polite,...
View ArticleThe Best Of Flying Monkeys (FMs)!
Hello, all! I've done a little searching and can't find a thread for this, so I thought I'd try to get one going. I am just starting to get some FMs regarding my birth plan (no visitors, just DH &...
View ArticleAnnouncing Pregnancy and BILs Wedding
I will be 13 weeks at my BILs wedding. We want to announce our pregnancy to the family around that time. We have to travel to the wedding and will be there a week beforehand. Is it appropriate to...
View ArticleBoundary Pusher!
I know I know, I'm (one of the many) girls that posted about my in laws watching my kid and not doing what I ask. Â (One of the many) girls you guys told to immediately get daycare and screw the in...
View ArticleMy friend keeps putting guilt in my heart because my dad gave me money
Here is my BG Its long but some of you might know me already http://community.babycenter.com/post/a40732039/hear_my_story_and_please_help_me._narc_mom_lost_first_baby_ocd_so_many_issues._losing_my_mind...
View ArticlePlease explain how a son can be "stolen"
Why is this a common feeling for a woman when her son marries? How does gaining a DIL equal a loss for her? DIL is often seen as the "other woman" or competition, which is something I don't understand....
View ArticleMom wants me to support her and my sisters baby
Ok a little BG: My mom and i use to be close. She was a single mom supporting me and my sis. Eventually my sis moved in with other family leaving me and my mom. My mom got back with my dad (who was in...
View ArticleCO Brother and FM Mom
Just wanted some outside perspective to make sure I'm not totally overreacting, as the whole situation has me emotionally charged. So one of my brothers is CO. It's been a long time in coming. BG is...
View ArticleDealing with the SIL
A little background. My SO an I met while he was going through a divorce. Unfortunately in the state of NC, you have to wait an entire year while legally "separated" and after the year, you can get...
View ArticleStressing about InLaws (sorry its long)
For a little background: My DH and I have been together for six years and married for almost four. His family has not liked me from day one, even though I've never done anything to them. FIL is nice...
View ArticleBrother told his kids they could be the "first" to see the baby...
So my brother (half) came to town to run a half marathon with my husband. He kept going on and on about how excited his son was to have a new nephew and then he tells us that he 'promised' them they...
View ArticleRun ins with CO IL's?
I can't remember if I've posted my big before. But basically mil, fil, and gmil are all NSC and toxic. It went nuts when Dh and I announced we were pregnant. They saw her twice as a newborn and then...
View ArticleAbout to cave in *warning, huge unicorn!*
Help! This is one of these nights where I really wish I had someone to talk to and my family is not an option. I hate that most of my family members are shit crazy and can't have a proper conversation...
View ArticleUnexpected Visitors *rant*
I don't know about all of you but I hate having unexpected visitors. I just got a text from my aunt at 830 saying her sister is on her way. No additional info as to why and that she'll be here. It's...
View Articleyoung sil
I love my husbands little sister. She is almost 4. Sometimes a littly whinny but all in all a sweet kid. The problem is my mil tells her that she can spend the night at my house all the time. Gets sil...
View ArticleGetting back at MIL/FIL REVENGE IS MINE!
So my boundary stomping passive aggressive manipulative in laws are CO and they kept on showing us over and over again why a CO was a good idea. My husband has moved from Duh to DH in one year and many...
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