*Trigger**Monday my poppy (dad (really stepdad but he was my dad)) passed away(he had a massive heart attack at work and fell and busted his head on the concrete were assured he never felt a thing)**End Trigger**. It was very suddenly and out of the blue. He was just over Sunday playing with lo smiling and laughing. Our family is devestated and we're all taking it hard.
Yesterday is still kind of a blur sinceI spent most of it in shock (I was told as soon I woke up). We had mil and other friends offer to watch lo while we attend services but my lo won't let me out of his sight for more than 10 minutes. I've tried saying no politely but they keep insisting. How can I tell them even if my son would stay I want him with me? I've tried stating it that way and was told what if he disrupts the service and things of that nature.
Yesterday is still kind of a blur sinceI spent most of it in shock (I was told as soon I woke up). We had mil and other friends offer to watch lo while we attend services but my lo won't let me out of his sight for more than 10 minutes. I've tried saying no politely but they keep insisting. How can I tell them even if my son would stay I want him with me? I've tried stating it that way and was told what if he disrupts the service and things of that nature.