Cat Pee
So my in-laws decided to remodel their house because we wwouldn't take our DD out there because of the cat pee smell. They completely redid their kitchen and living room but unfortunately they didn't...
View Articledelivery day trigger #udpg 7! update. they came tomy church this morning!ud...
So i miscarried in october last year. My mil and fil told me and dh that we deserved it because i am a hairstylist and did it to myself by standing on my feet and coloring hair and they wouldnt come to...
View ArticleMIL & SIL are driving me NUTS! Plus unsupportive mom
I'll get right to it b/c you need history. My hubby and I have been together for almost 4 years and married for 4 months and have been living together since we started dating. I had a huge blow up with...
View ArticleHow to prepare for possible IL boundary stomp?
We are moving closer to DH's family. He has two brothers and one sister. I don't know them well, the sister lives far away. His parents seems nice but I have yet to meet them. But I'm not worried about...
View ArticleI need help writing response to MiL
Ok slight back story, my DH is an only child, and my Mil is a free spirit 63 going on 42 (she doesn't act her age) about to retire woman. I've wrote previously about her provoking my anxiety with my...
View ArticleIs this manipulative or just annoying?
I have some background on here, mil is bsc. I convinced duh to move far away and she is pissed! Duh and Ods call her occassionally to talk to Grandma. (I called her with him while duh was out of...
View ArticleFil... sorry long i just need to share.
When dh and i finally got pregnant with our lo (im currently 26w) we were excited because this was our last try, my FIL asked if my parents were excited too.. and i told him that my dad had been...
View Articlejournaling help...a crazy childhood
I'm trying to journal about my childhood/parents, what was good and bad and why my parents cause me anxiety. How separation, drugs, mental illness made my parents..different and how to deal.with it. If...
View Articlehow to deal politely *trigger*
*Trigger**Monday my poppy (dad (really stepdad but he was my dad)) passed away(he had a massive heart attack at work and fell and busted his head on the concrete were assured he never felt a...
View ArticleSemi-DuH and MIL. Help me find the right words
BG: My MIL is nice and generally harmless, but she is self-centered and uber-p/a, and extremely hyper-sensitive. The best way to describe her behavior is to say she has toddler-level reactions to her...
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It is a huge violation of BBC rules to share post a Private Note sent by another BBC member
View ArticleUPDATE ** Do i need to calm down? Need some advice from the experienced...
My OP is belowSo in the middle of me typing a response DF walked in! I close the window and immediately hit him with "Want to talk?"So i pretty much immediately start bawling, and tell him I want to...
View ArticleI'm better! attitude
Can I just say, blah, to this!? I took the route of taking my.time with schooling, and instead went the route of sahm to 4 kids. We aren't "comfortably off" on dhs income, but our bills are paid and we...
View ArticleChange of mind...(mother)
When I moved back with my DD to my mother's house (a year and 4 months ago), My mother never watches her during the day, or offers, or takes her out, nothing. She came to me and told me that as long as...
View ArticleNeed advice from twin mommies or any BTDT moms.
BG: My MIL is a total boundary stomper and both PIL try to be inappropriately involved in the decision making of their adult children. I'm 13 weeks pregnant with twins and already thinking about post...
View ArticleSoooo frustrated.
Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a45639190/where_do_we_go_from_here_meh_update_on_pg7_with_me_fails.?cpg=8&pd=-1 Sorry about hitting enter too soon, holding fussy baby. Well, to...
View ArticleMil is being pushy.
Some ladies from my birth club told me I could get some good advice here. Here's the situation : I am living with my inlaws for a little while (already been here 4 months) until we get the funds to...
View Articleas I sit here and listen to AILS bf..
AIL is getting fined by the city. So they(CIL, FIL, AIL, DH) are tearing up the driveway to lay gravel.. all while AILs bf sits in a chair drinks beer,smokes cigarettes and bitches about the way my DH...
View ArticleToys
My MIL and FIL are on TO currently. DH has attempted to tell them why they are TO multiple times (to which they react to as victims) and we both expect them to apolgize/make ammends and this has not...
View ArticleAm I being too sensitive?
So mil and I have had some issues. We just started seeing each other again after a 7 month TO. Basically she is a boundary stomper and has no regard for me as LOs mother, my husbands wife, or really as...
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