When I moved back with my DD to my mother's house (a year and 4 months ago), My mother never watches her during the day, or offers, or takes her out, nothing. She came to me and told me that as long as DD is sleeping at night, I can go have some time with my friends at night (once a week). Since im with my DD everyday.
Then she told me that as long as I tell her what time im coming back, that it is ok with her. So I do as she says.
All of a sudden, she says "you should stay at home, you should be going out, im not use to "babysitting" a child."
I understand my DD is my daughter, and that I am responsible for her at all times. But once a week, is it that hard to "babysit" a sleeping baby? I guess im confused about the change of mind.
Has this happened to anyone else?
It is a little frustrating...trying to still have some me time outside of the house.