BG: My MIL is a total boundary stomper and both PIL try to be inappropriately involved in the decision making of their adult children.
I'm 13 weeks pregnant with twins and already thinking about post partum help/visits. My PIL want to come about 2 weeks after the twins are due to visit and help.
Here is my question: Is the help they can offer worth the headaches that will result? How crazy are the first few weeks with twins? Will I be dying for any help at that point? Oh and my DH gets a whole 2 whopping days of paternity leave!
I'm 13 weeks pregnant with twins and already thinking about post partum help/visits. My PIL want to come about 2 weeks after the twins are due to visit and help.
Here is my question: Is the help they can offer worth the headaches that will result? How crazy are the first few weeks with twins? Will I be dying for any help at that point? Oh and my DH gets a whole 2 whopping days of paternity leave!