Go well I am on bec with my sil my duhs sister, she been on to/ lc for a month or two can't remember since its been like heaven, sad but true. But it hasn't stooped her from trying to boundary stomp, which I haven't let happen, its taken me a while to re grow the spine I once had.
Anyhow since duh is very slowly trying to turn to dh again lots of talking opening up, were doing a lot better( for those who want to know)
Well he's been having contact with sil but I haven't and today ask fathers day she sends this text
" HAPPY FATHERS DAY, HAVE A GOOD DAY WITH YOUR LITTLE ONES,(I'm not included but whatever) LOVE YOU MY BETTER HALF."
Now is that just me or is that weird that's something you say to your partner not your brother, didn't say anything to him because its his day & I don't if I'm crazy or not. Now on Sunday we have a family party my side aka the side we both love so I know he's going to want us to go to his parents house which I don't mind but I have a couple issues
A. His parents always make comments about not seeing our kids a lot, things like I haven't seen you in 2 years, but they never want to come to us something I was thinking of say if they say such comments, I would say well your more than welcome to come to us since dh has invited you before, does that sound ok and not too rude?
B. & his sister is leaving next door to his parents so she's always there, but I know how to put her down when it comes to not listening to what I say to my kids or her being all over them, like " please don't pick up DD were trying not to do that she's 3 and a big girl" & " please leaving him with file or mil he hasn't seen them in a while and we came to see them." Is that ok or to rough where I may just be making more drama.
Thanks in advance ladies I'm up and have my big girl panties on
Anyhow since duh is very slowly trying to turn to dh again lots of talking opening up, were doing a lot better( for those who want to know)
Well he's been having contact with sil but I haven't and today ask fathers day she sends this text
" HAPPY FATHERS DAY, HAVE A GOOD DAY WITH YOUR LITTLE ONES,(I'm not included but whatever) LOVE YOU MY BETTER HALF."
Now is that just me or is that weird that's something you say to your partner not your brother, didn't say anything to him because its his day & I don't if I'm crazy or not. Now on Sunday we have a family party my side aka the side we both love so I know he's going to want us to go to his parents house which I don't mind but I have a couple issues
A. His parents always make comments about not seeing our kids a lot, things like I haven't seen you in 2 years, but they never want to come to us something I was thinking of say if they say such comments, I would say well your more than welcome to come to us since dh has invited you before, does that sound ok and not too rude?
B. & his sister is leaving next door to his parents so she's always there, but I know how to put her down when it comes to not listening to what I say to my kids or her being all over them, like " please don't pick up DD were trying not to do that she's 3 and a big girl" & " please leaving him with file or mil he hasn't seen them in a while and we came to see them." Is that ok or to rough where I may just be making more drama.
Thanks in advance ladies I'm up and have my big girl panties on