Bg: my fsil introduced me to my fh. We were friends but not super close. She has 2 DS one of which is with current bf. he treats her like crap and is absolutely horrible to her oldest. Shows major favoritism with the kids. Refuses to marry her. Ff 2 yrs: my DS and I've moved in with Fh and we have a dd together. I've become a sahm and I'm much more aware of our financial business. My Fh is co owners in a bs with his dad. They have paid for her medical bills, car bills, and phone. They also pay for kids clothes and sports. Which means it's coming out of my families pocket. Yet she talks about poorly about them constantly and acts like they do nothing for her. She openly admits she doesn't like her dad but uses him cause he will pay for it so why not. Now she magically is pregnant and finds out the day I have my dd. like really? She couldn't keep it to herself and let her brother have his time. She can't afford another child and is only doing it for attention. We had the first granddaughter in Fh side of the family. Anyways ffil send us a text asking us to talk to my fmil (they are separated) about buy her a gift card so she can buy maternity clothes because he is spending $150 on each of her sons for their back to school clothes. I think this is ridiculous. She planned this pregnancy she's had two kids she knows she will need maternity clothes. She should have to buy them. I'm tired of helping ungrateful people. Is this wrong of me? How should I handle this?
* forgot to add she called my fh a spoiled baby and fh says third child is out of the question because of money yet we are taking care of all of hers. She also expects all of my baby stuff.
* forgot to add she called my fh a spoiled baby and fh says third child is out of the question because of money yet we are taking care of all of hers. She also expects all of my baby stuff.