*long, sorry!* Well .. I thought I had a spine , too bad it was made of styrofoam !

I've posted on her before, back in January or February , about my monster in law .. Although reading some of your ladies posts, she doesn't seem all that bad, but she's definitely my BEC !!!


So since I last wrote on here (I'll post the link in the comments) my bf got us to "apologize" to each other & he got me to add her back to fb (bit of a mistake , I know ) she hasn't freaked out at me again, but I'm sure once we start talking about moving again shits gonna hit the fan ...


Anyway, I'm posting because I feel extremely uncomfortable with her watching my 3 mo for an hour or 2 every other Sunday so me & my bf can go out & get stuff done or just have time for ourselves . I feel like its unfair that my parents see her everyday (we live with them) & mil only sees her a few times a month, but I have anxiety attacks just leaving lo with her & I hate it because I feel bad & my bf knows I hate leaving her but I haven't told him that I'm uncomfortable with her watching lo, because I don't know why !!


Also, she shares EVERYTHING I post on fb about lo when I've asked her not too .. & she comments on everything saying "what a doll baby!" Which makes my skin crawl for whatever reason ..


So I guess my question us, how would you ladies deal with this ??