I've been on BBC for 6 years. This board is where it started. It was the first place that didn't make me feel crazy and that made me feel okay with creating distance between myself and toxic family.
However, I don't think my husband is really on my side. He doesn't pressure me to please his mom so much. It's like he has just given up and removed himself from family tension. Yet, I know he wants his parents to know he's still there for them despite his mean wife. 
I have trouble truly feeling close to him because of this. I feel betrayed. The one person who is supposed to be there for me isn't. I've been told I just "hate people", "hate family", that I'm "bitter" (why wouldn't I be?), that he thinks I'm "just trying cause problems".
I've never told him I come here. I like having a private place to vent yet I also want to show him that I'm not crazy and that others are going through the same thing. I'm still debating whether to share this board with him.
If your husband knows, what does he think of it? What are his opinions about the posts?