Hi ladies,
Maybe you guys have some other ways of dealing with this kind of SIL. The girl is simply stated one of the most arrogant, rude, controlling and obnoxious people I think I will have the misfortune of ever knowing in my life. She constantl goes against what I say on regards to my children. So for example she will intentionally give my daughter her cell pone to play with when I literally state minutes before that I jut got her to stop playing with cell phones. that's just one example of how she purposely goes against my wishes. this is constantly happening and I've tried many ways to go around it. Ive tried confronting her nicely and then she starts crying and acting like I hurt her feelings and since I'm the only one who is not blood related other than her hubby everyone pretty much sides with her except my DH. Ive tried ignorin her and jut acting like it doesn't bother me and then she will continue and literally go out of her way to make sure I can't miss what she's doing. As of now I avoid her and my MIL ( she's the same if not worse) unless I need to be around them. What are your suggestions? It's getting to a point where Im going to flip out an I don't want her getting satisfied by that since I'm sure that's what she wants. Help. Thank you.
Maybe you guys have some other ways of dealing with this kind of SIL. The girl is simply stated one of the most arrogant, rude, controlling and obnoxious people I think I will have the misfortune of ever knowing in my life. She constantl goes against what I say on regards to my children. So for example she will intentionally give my daughter her cell pone to play with when I literally state minutes before that I jut got her to stop playing with cell phones. that's just one example of how she purposely goes against my wishes. this is constantly happening and I've tried many ways to go around it. Ive tried confronting her nicely and then she starts crying and acting like I hurt her feelings and since I'm the only one who is not blood related other than her hubby everyone pretty much sides with her except my DH. Ive tried ignorin her and jut acting like it doesn't bother me and then she will continue and literally go out of her way to make sure I can't miss what she's doing. As of now I avoid her and my MIL ( she's the same if not worse) unless I need to be around them. What are your suggestions? It's getting to a point where Im going to flip out an I don't want her getting satisfied by that since I'm sure that's what she wants. Help. Thank you.