Hey guys, I apologize for the long vent in advance but here goes.
I found out I was pregnant at 8 weeks in March and told my parents as soon as I knew. My boyfriend and I were together for 11 months before we found out and I was living with him at the time. We're both 19, he's turning 20 this year (we're still young, I know) and when I broke the news down to my parents by myself, my dad said he'd be there for me and will be supportive with whateve decision I make while my mum told me to get rid of my baby and she never wanted to see me again. Nevertheless, that was a reaction I was expecting from her, and it was all out of anger since after a couple of months of not talking to her, we decided to patch things up.
I moved back to my parents' in July knowing I'd get the support I need while my boyfriend worked 6 days a week. But shortly after I moved back in, they began to neglect me and pretend like I didn't exist. They went for a vacation in the Philippines for the whole month of August, leaving me with absolutely nothing but the keys to the house. No food, no money to help me survive for the time they were gone. They didn't even say bye to me before they left. Now that it's September, I was hoping they would come back and would wanna tell me why they were acting this way towards me, but nothing's changed. I'm still invisible in this household and it sucks because they told me they'd be there to support me. Everyone else around me is happy for me and supportive, especially my boyfriend's family, but how do I keep dealing with their cold shoulders until my LO comes out? Idk, I guess it's just really getting to me now, and I'm always so upset coming home to a house where your family ignores you at the time you need them the most. Any suggestions as to what I should do?