I'm copying and pasting some of my old posts in my birth club as I was redirected here.
ONE:
I'm 99% sure my mom (or dad) stole my military card. Its magically disappeared from my diaper bag and any other place it would be. This apartment is turned upside down and it still hasn't showed up. Why am I so sure? Bank statements have gone missing and she's showed up "I accidently took it I thought it was mine". Like bitch why the efff would YOUR bank statement be HERE?! And we never leave them lying around they get thrown in a manilla folder... in a box... in the closet. Needless to say we take care those right away now and shred them.
If it doesn't appear by noon I'm calling DEERS and reporting it stolen.
UPDATE:
I called her an hour ago just casually asking if she had seen it.
"Oh yes I accidently grabbed it probably ended up with the olive garden stuff (we had takeout olive garden on her birthday last week) I was going to call and return it"
Soooounds reasonable but
A. I haven't used the card since my baby's 2 week appointment and she is now 7 weeks.
B. I haven't taken it out of the card holder in the diaper bag
C. You left all the garbage here and only took one box of pasta how would it have gotten 'mixed up'
And yeah I had gotten a new one June 6th when I got my LN changed finally.
TWO:
Last night my mother came over to see LO after work. She knows we want everyone to wash their hands before holding her, especially her after coming from work (she works in a doctors office with patients with god knows what all day).
So yeah, she comes over and goes to the bathroom to wash her hands. In our apartment the bathroom is visible from the kitchen. She doesn't shut the door like usual and flips the tap on and JUST STANDS THERE then flips it off. Comes out and goes "I just washed them!"
I had her actually wash them in the kitchen sink after that.
Like really wtf?!?!?!?! Glad I don't leave her alone ever with LO.
COMMENT THAT ANSWERED QUESTIONS:
She isn't a nurse she's a medical billing coder. She is an MA though so if any of her offices are short staffed she's allowed to take patients to the rooms and check blood pressure and what not.
Regardless though she's in doctor offices touching things sick people have been. Its just disgusting.
THREE: Can a hospital register me under a fake name?
I don't mean I'm going to give them fake info. Just in their system put me in as something else.
I'm asking because my mother works in multiple health networks as a coder and she can see all the health records. All the hospitals here are under a network she hasaccess too.
II'm not telling her when I go into labor or what pediatricion LO sees but she's made it known she will be checking chart notes and whatnot to see how things are, I'm not comfortable with that and she doesn't need to know everything (or anything).
UPDATE
That I know of, she never saw the hospital info if she did she hasnt hinted at any knowledge that I didn't tell her. However, as LOs dad is military I decided to just have her see a military pediatrician. My mom DID hint that I wasn't taking her to a doctor at all- probably because she searched the systems already and found no info on my baby.
Anyway, so some things I never posted prior I'd like to add that she has said:
"You are my baby therefore your baby is mine"
"When decides he doesn't want to be a father anymore, come back home! I'm sure we can get you on some sort of government assistance" fyi BD enjoys every minute of fatherhood and is not leaving DDs life probably ever.
"You have one baby, that's enough for you you don't need to keep being a mom" what the....?
She has done other things that I cant remember at the moment. But like the "youre my baby shes my baby" comment whenever shes over here (which isnt often a few times a month) since I'm "hers" (oh yes and I am a legal adult) shes felt entitled to go through our things and cupboards.
But yeah, I feel like it's time to CO before it gets way out of hand if it's not already. Opinions?