Lets see if i can bg this in a nutshell:
I was born into a poor fam of 7 siblings and put up for adoption on birth day. Fostercare then to fam for adoption. Birth fam tried to get me back at that point. 6 years in court and i get to stay with adoptive fam with stipulation i know my birth siblings growing up.
Birth father was mia and pretty much never around except to make kids. From what i know he left for good after younger sis was born and no one has a relationship with him. Birth mom is a peach too and few of them even like or have relationship with her. Guess he has another fam or two with a ton more kids. And idk where bm is nor care.
None of my sisters talk to him, no one ever speaks of him fondly.
Heres the sitch:
Birth father had a stroke. Seems younger sis lives near bm who told her. Lil sis has been spreading word of stroke on facebook. Now everyone is in a tissy trying to care or something.
One of my older sisters who i know hates the dude went so far as to drive 10 hours to see him in hospital. Ok fine they can do what they like.
This sister decided to print pics of the siblings and their kids, his grand kids, and make a collage board for him. She wrote on top, blah blah family...their last name.
Nice fine. EXCEPT she printed pics of me and my daughter and put them on there!!!!!!!!! Im so pist. He is nothing to me. Ive met him 2 times tops and not in like 25 years! He did nothing to make me who i am except for give me up. Which honestly is the best thing he could have done.
I have a decent relationship with this sister. Shes actually my favorite of the lot of em. But this really makes me mad. I want her to take the pics off but i know she already gave it to him so she cant but i want her to know this bothered me.
What do i say? How do i say it? Phone text email facebook msg?? Am i a bitch i dont want him to see me or my daughter? Id never share those pics with him, never add him on fb, nothing that would give him access to my life. I even had to block my bm cause she was fb stalking me and sending me fake friend requests to see my private profile.
Sorry so long. Thanks for reading. It just offends me shed do this when im not their fam, have nothing to do with him.
Can give more bg if required...its a crazy long story.
I was born into a poor fam of 7 siblings and put up for adoption on birth day. Fostercare then to fam for adoption. Birth fam tried to get me back at that point. 6 years in court and i get to stay with adoptive fam with stipulation i know my birth siblings growing up.
Birth father was mia and pretty much never around except to make kids. From what i know he left for good after younger sis was born and no one has a relationship with him. Birth mom is a peach too and few of them even like or have relationship with her. Guess he has another fam or two with a ton more kids. And idk where bm is nor care.
None of my sisters talk to him, no one ever speaks of him fondly.
Heres the sitch:
Birth father had a stroke. Seems younger sis lives near bm who told her. Lil sis has been spreading word of stroke on facebook. Now everyone is in a tissy trying to care or something.
One of my older sisters who i know hates the dude went so far as to drive 10 hours to see him in hospital. Ok fine they can do what they like.
This sister decided to print pics of the siblings and their kids, his grand kids, and make a collage board for him. She wrote on top, blah blah family...their last name.
Nice fine. EXCEPT she printed pics of me and my daughter and put them on there!!!!!!!!! Im so pist. He is nothing to me. Ive met him 2 times tops and not in like 25 years! He did nothing to make me who i am except for give me up. Which honestly is the best thing he could have done.
I have a decent relationship with this sister. Shes actually my favorite of the lot of em. But this really makes me mad. I want her to take the pics off but i know she already gave it to him so she cant but i want her to know this bothered me.
What do i say? How do i say it? Phone text email facebook msg?? Am i a bitch i dont want him to see me or my daughter? Id never share those pics with him, never add him on fb, nothing that would give him access to my life. I even had to block my bm cause she was fb stalking me and sending me fake friend requests to see my private profile.
Sorry so long. Thanks for reading. It just offends me shed do this when im not their fam, have nothing to do with him.
Can give more bg if required...its a crazy long story.