Long story sorry, my son will be 15 next week. He plays very innocent and sweet but I caught so many inappropriate things he has done (constantly lies, stole from his stepbrother and step cousin, cursing when I'm not around, pictures of weed plants, inappropriate pics n texts online, sneaks things behind my back, etc) there is more but that's some of it. Anyways to get to the point my mom constantly babied him n spoiled him, acts like the world revolves around him and lets him manipulate her so she thinks he is the victim and that he is left out and treated badly and no one cares about him (me and my so). So finally I told her to stop babying him n back me up but every time he came back from visiting with her he would have a lil attitude and wouldn't want to do his chores. (Just Sweeping and taking out trash) My son had everything, he has his own room, had cell phone, ipod, xbox, tv, laptop, etc but after I found all that stuff everything got taken away. I gave him chances gave him his stuff back but caught stuff again so I took everything away again. He has to earn it all back. Anyways my mom kept saying how I was being mean and pushing him away and kept telling him its ok and he's just a kid and doesn't know any better bla bla bla. So finally I told my mom if she doesnt respect me or my rules she doesnt need to be around. I told her he has rules and there are consequences and he needs to respect me and follow the rules. Im trying to put him down the right path, and feel he is too old to be treated like a baby and needs to grow up and be responsible for his actions. She talked all kinds of crap and said fine she's going to leave us alone. That was fourth of july. Now that his birthday is next week she keeps calling like a psycho ex! Right away she left a voice mail with attitude saying she is going to keep calling and hasn't stopped calling since. Sorry so long and all over the place there's just so much background. Anyone else go through something like this?
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