I haven't wrote about my issues with MIL, but this one has me really confused. I haven't talked to her in a year, due to her disrespecting me in every way possible before. Its been so nice to not having to work around her schedule or even see her every weekend. DH has and i wouldnt stop him from talking yto her, it is his mom after all. She always has something to say about me, so im used to it. But this is what happened last night. MIL and FIL bought us a used crib, but in good condition, which i really liked. My DH told them thanks and they talked for a bit and left. DH set the crib up and i fell in love with it. I told my sis about it and she told me to check if it has been recalled. Im FTM and never even thought about it. So i checked online and sure enough it has. There has been over 50 incidents with these cribs. I immediately tell DH and showed him the info. I said that im not putting LO in it. DH than calls MIL and ask her where she got it and that the crib has been recalled. Well she flipped shit! She started saying that im the one who doesn't want it and blah blah blah.. That people are finally going to know that im the bad one and that im ungrateful. And she said that it's not like the baby is going to jump in the crib, wtffffff??? My DH told her that i liked it, but that it's just makes us nervous because it's our first baby and such. So she said she is going to come and get it. I dont care about that. But now DH is upset and he freaked out on me saying that he is tired of always being in the middle of everything, and that LO is not going to be involved in our problems between MIL and i. In my heart i know im doing the right thing by not wanting to use the crib, im not going to do it to please MIL. i even told DH i prefer coming off as a bitch to people,but im going to be a good mom to my child. Has anyone been in the same situation? How did u handle it? Sorry for typos, writing on my phone. Thanks for reading.
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