I've been told many times sit downs and face to face never go well. But I'm at the point I need to do it, sil and I just don't get along because I'm done taking her shit because I don't live will mil and fil anymore they all wanted to play parents because I was young they didn't like that I didn't let them help me raised my dd.
So Dh is doing much better and starting to understand he's a big unicorn. Hes had my back when put sil on to and lc but wants us to talk it out and if it doesn't work I can Co.
So what's making me want to do this face to face is because I want to let it out and set boundaries and see if that works because other wise she's going to keep actting weird exsample ( Thanksgiving we stoped by inlaws everything is going way better with my speaking up when I need to with things that make me uncomfortable. Fil asked to take dd to see the chickens outside I said yes because we were almost leaving and I thought sil who lives next door with ail and uil was not there. So 5 minutes in I hear someone calling DD (come here come her I'm ur Tia (aunt) shhh I'm going to take your picture say cheese) creepy I think yes.
She likes to do this when I'm not around though I can her and no DD of DS don't know her enough to call her aunt because or lc because she likes to play mommy though she has a DD anyways this got long sorry
I want to have a sit down just me and her I can take anything she can say and I'm learning to not react with anger but with the truth I'm thinking of sending her this text
Hey sil its Brownie no
I've had time and I would like to have a talk with you alone to put everything on the table and set boundaries so we can both be happy and be able to be in the same place when we have to and be civil and maybe get to a good place. Please let me know if you would be interested in this or not so we can set a date thanks
What do you think or what should I say??? And yes I am doing this because I want to let go of anger and not give it so much head space either way it goes
So Dh is doing much better and starting to understand he's a big unicorn. Hes had my back when put sil on to and lc but wants us to talk it out and if it doesn't work I can Co.
So what's making me want to do this face to face is because I want to let it out and set boundaries and see if that works because other wise she's going to keep actting weird exsample ( Thanksgiving we stoped by inlaws everything is going way better with my speaking up when I need to with things that make me uncomfortable. Fil asked to take dd to see the chickens outside I said yes because we were almost leaving and I thought sil who lives next door with ail and uil was not there. So 5 minutes in I hear someone calling DD (come here come her I'm ur Tia (aunt) shhh I'm going to take your picture say cheese) creepy I think yes.
She likes to do this when I'm not around though I can her and no DD of DS don't know her enough to call her aunt because or lc because she likes to play mommy though she has a DD anyways this got long sorry
I want to have a sit down just me and her I can take anything she can say and I'm learning to not react with anger but with the truth I'm thinking of sending her this text
Hey sil its Brownie no
I've had time and I would like to have a talk with you alone to put everything on the table and set boundaries so we can both be happy and be able to be in the same place when we have to and be civil and maybe get to a good place. Please let me know if you would be interested in this or not so we can set a date thanks
What do you think or what should I say??? And yes I am doing this because I want to let go of anger and not give it so much head space either way it goes