Feral Narcissist MIL (UD 4, 7, 8, 9, 12, poss. trigger 15, 16, 18, 20)
I'll try to link my BG if I can find it... http://community.babycenter.com/post/a43640419/narcissist_mil_collateral_damage_long_small_trigger Basically my MIL boundary-stomped the shit out of my...
View ArticleBest BSC stories ☼Holiday☼ edition!
I'm curious to hear some BSC stories of ILS or FOO that have occurred during those 'awesome' holiday family get togethers and dinners.
View ArticleDo I tell MIL or just dont ?
Hey guys We are no longer talking to my inlaws. Last time I talked to MIL was when she told me that she only will meet my husbond bcus he is family not me. For almost one year she havent asked hos the...
View ArticleThe countdown begins...
4 1/2 hours until my daughter's paternal grandmother comes over. Neither of us have seen her for about 8 months due to her being disrespectful and boundary stomping. This is going to be awkward. I am...
View Articleit's been 10 months
OK I'm on my phone so excuse any misspelling as auto correct hates me. I can't listed background but basically we put my pil in a to 10 months ago after their response to our CTj letter. So we are...
View ArticleThanksgiving (first baby) announcement RAGE
Hello all, I'm new to this group and bbc as its my first baby but man am I soooo glad I found you! Ive been lurking for awhile just waiting for my first DWIL story...and today on thanksgiving it...
View ArticleChristmas coffee commercial
Anyone see the new coffee commercial for Folgers? I think it's Folgers...anyways! It shows an older woman in her pajamas holding a baby and talking about how special Christmas morning is and how her...
View ArticleSitting in my underwear watching TV.
That's what I text my sister earlier today when she asked what we were doing today. She was at her IL's spiking her coffee, lol. So thanks DWIL for guiding me in building my spine. Had I not, I'd be...
View ArticleMy 16 year old brother in law is gay and suicidal? (Possible triggers)
Dh comes from a super religious family and while he's not religious his parents are. I've pretty much known his 16 year old brother was gay every since I met him and because I've been around gay ppl...
View ArticleFinally CO my "father" *trigger*
I'm a long time lurker but first time poster here. A little background: My parents were really crappy while I was growing up. they gave me to my grandparents (they are more of my parents than my...
View ArticleHad baby but feel like everything is falling apart
So after the big fight with DH family we got a few text messages then everything just stopped. DH just got one phone call from a older brother saying he was going to be in town and wanted to meet up...
View ArticleCO (trigger in OP)--Update 6 and 7
BG: My dad is a child. He was abusive to me growing up and is mentally ill (no meds until I was an adult). He was only ever going to have LC (family functions, etc). Well, my parents' house is...
View Article*Photo of turkey in trashcan attached pg 3* Turkey in the trash can
So, I recently wrote on here about my TOed MIL who we haven't seen or spoken to in over 6 months. She hasn't tried to make contact. Last week DH gets this bizarre, super sweet voicemail "just wondering...
View ArticleShe wants to take my baby for a few days to "bond"- update pg 16, NEW pg 19
So I posted not too long ago about my idiot BIL and SIL (whom I am still referring to as Mark and Mary) and how they are both rude and inconsiderate. Maybe it was the DWIL ladies that fueled my spine...
View ArticleSpeechless.First Thanksgiving? (ridiculous, possible trigger?)
Long time lurker, first time poster, love this site. You want a drama-filled holiday entry-here it is. lol. Let me say that this Thanksgiving was so bad that late last night my husband wanted to try...
View ArticlePost-Thanksgiving MIL Rant
Hello! New here! I posted this in the March 2014 Birth Club but I feel like I'd get a better response here. And it's driving me crazy. So, my fiance and I are having our Baby Shower on December 8th....
View ArticleGetting stressed out by my mother!
It may just be pregnancy hormones but my mom has been getting on my nerves all day! She has non stop questioned my parenting choices all day,yelled at me because I said something that reminded her of...
View ArticleUpset by BIL GF's group email response ... how to respond? *long*
Seeking advice. I'm fairly upset by this email thread, but maybe the wiser community of DWTIL can provide some objective insight and proper response. Right now I haven't been planning on responding...
View Articleholiday blues anybody?
I've tried and tried to get in the holiday mood but with my mil drama, dh always being a scrooge about Christmas. I've had my Christmas tree up for a few days now but I just can't bring myself to...
View ArticleMIL freaked out!
I haven't wrote about my issues with MIL, but this one has me really confused. I haven't talked to her in a year, due to her disrespecting me in every way possible before. Its been so nice to not...
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