I already posted on the October birth club but I probably should have posted in here instead.. You ladies might can give me some advice or have been through something like this..
Anyway, I'm a little frustrated and need some advice.
Before LO was even born my mom & MIL offered to watch LO when I returned to work so I told them I would split up the days between them. DH already has Monday off so he was planning on watching LO then and the other days would be split apart between mom & MIL. Then MIL says she wants to come on Mondays too to help DH watch baby. I said no because I wanted DH and LO to have that day just for
Themselves so they can bond and have time together. (Because if LO has an option he wants to be on me all day) so I want them to have time alone.
Well, tomorrow (Monday) is my first day back to work and MIL insists on coming over to help DH. So now I'm frustrated because she's going against my wishes. DH doesn't see the big deal but to me it is because she knew how I felt.
Should I not be frustrated? Am I crazy?
Anyway, I'm a little frustrated and need some advice.
Before LO was even born my mom & MIL offered to watch LO when I returned to work so I told them I would split up the days between them. DH already has Monday off so he was planning on watching LO then and the other days would be split apart between mom & MIL. Then MIL says she wants to come on Mondays too to help DH watch baby. I said no because I wanted DH and LO to have that day just for
Themselves so they can bond and have time together. (Because if LO has an option he wants to be on me all day) so I want them to have time alone.
Well, tomorrow (Monday) is my first day back to work and MIL insists on coming over to help DH. So now I'm frustrated because she's going against my wishes. DH doesn't see the big deal but to me it is because she knew how I felt.
Should I not be frustrated? Am I crazy?