My Mom is moving
Not only is she moving to my town, she is moving two doors down from where we bought our dream house. She used to be semi normal, but now I think I realized she was just wanting to be super enmeshed....
View ArticleVery horrible trip to see the ILs.
I have never met the ILs before. We met, married and live out of state and it just never happened. Well I just had LO two months ago so we flew out to see them and it was bad. It was mainly just MIL...
View ArticleI need help with my sister who has PTSD from the war*Update pg 6,9
My sister is 30. We live a few blocks from each other. She was in the war and now is 100 percent disabled and on disability. She is a drama starter her and my Mother who is states away. But she's also...
View ArticleBean dip - practical guide
Recently let some people off TO, now the plan is to put them on low contact with no info train. In past them probing has always got them info even if I originally did not intend to share. Please help...
View ArticleHad to file for a RO yesterday(Trigger) UD Pg 12, 20, 25
Yep. It has been a loooooong few days. I don't have any relevant background. In September I cut off contact with my eldest first cousin and his wife. I have been close to this cousin since I was a...
View Articleparentified?
Anyone parentified by their FOO? I may have been. I'm exploring that idea and how it effects adulthood.
View ArticleNarc mom and "her""Sally" -- warning major TRIGGER Updates p. 15, 23, 36
Warning: my entire post contains triggers. NOTE: My FOO issue is rather stale but I have updates regarding pregnancy issues on page 23. (Just so people don't read all the way through and get annoyed...
View ArticleWhat the heck do I do here? MYOB or tell dad?
I'm absolutely in shock right now. And I don't know what I should do. I apologize. I'm on my phone, I'm shaking, and this is going to be long. My dad and I don't have the best relationship. Too many...
View ArticleLove FB but really?
WTF is up with personal details on FB recently? It must be a full moon or something. A girl I know from High School is on FB giving a play-by-play of the birth of her grandchild. She is in the room....
View ArticleCut my parents off (long vent)
I had a not so great childhood with an abusive, mentally ill mother. My dad turned a blind eye to all of it. I ended up in foster care but afterward tried and did develop an ok relationship with them....
View Articlehelp me with a babysitter...
My mom is a huge boundary stomper and has been put on lc for this pregnancy. I am due march and will go back to work in may. My duh wants my mom to babysit because she is free. I know this is a bad...
View ArticleMeddlesome Grandma is wrecking our home life!! Advice please!!!
Two years ago we moved 8 hours across Texas so we could live down the street from my parents. Before the move, I had a great relationship with my kids. I stayed home with them all day and we all got...
View ArticleFrustrated & need advice
I already posted on the October birth club but I probably should have posted in here instead.. You ladies might can give me some advice or have been through something like this.. Anyway, I'm a little...
View ArticleBIL handling baby- LONG *possible trigger
Want to start off saying I have been on BBC for over a year but am too embarrassed to post this under my usual name incase someone I know will see. That being said here's my issue: DH, BIL and I are in...
View ArticleEXTREME Baby Rabies! **LONG**
I created a faux username for privacy, but I've followed this group for awhile& have read many posts. My in laws have terrible baby rabies. They developed with the birth of my bil& his wife's...
View Article**possible triggers** custody of my cousins child. updates 5&6
Ok. Things went insane today. I know this isn't a vent board. I need perspective on how to handle family. **possible triggers throughout. Today I get a call that my cousin is in jail for having a meth...
View ArticleC/O or very limited time spent with paternal grandparents when no longer with...
I always read on here "Mommy and baby are a package deal" and that women shouldn't allow the in laws access alone with the child... giving them what they want (the child without dealing with the...
View ArticleJust wanted to check if I am taking DWIL-worthy steps
Hi all :) We have had an incident lately that has needed addressing with the ILs. They live in the next suburb over from us and we see them frequently, 1-2 times a week usually. BG: FIL has some...
View ArticleMy sister and her abusive husband *possible trigger* pg 5 pg 7 p9, *new* Pg 26
I am not sure if this is the correct board for this so I apologize if this belongs elsewhere but I could really use some honest advice or opinions... My sister is one of my best friends and obviously I...
View ArticleAm I being heartless?
I lurk often and think you have all given me a bit of a backbone but am writing now to see if I'm doing the right thing or if I am being a heartless bitch. Dh comes from a big family that all grew up...
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