Sick kidlet, need advice
This is probably going to be rambling but I need advice because I'm so upset. My 2 year old was diagnosed with cancer last November. She had 7 months of treatment before being declared NED. Most of her...
View ArticleMIL attacked me again..Update Page8: DH's email to MIL; page 40: Therapy...
So a few days ago I posted here telling all of you how my in-laws keep disrespecting me both as a mother and person in general. I told DH to tell them they are no longer allowed to see lo and yesterday...
View ArticleO/T Meth-head in the nursery. reply pg 4, 6,7, owner ud 14, 20
Ok, DWIL, I need some advice. 1. I just found out about this tonight 2. I am sure that something needs to be said (correct me if I'm wrong) 3. Minimizing personal fallout, if at all possible, would be...
View Articleconstant
Please be gentle DWILers. We have gone LC.We see IL's average once 4-6 weeks now. But we have had to explain constantly, that we have slowed down and this is life now. However the demands are...
View ArticleMIL treats us like her kids
I'm getting annoyed at my MIL treating me like her young child. Dhs side of the family is huge and there is literally a party of some sort every weekend. We go to most of them, but we have lives too....
View ArticleHow Did your In Laws or family React to being CO or TO?
What was the final straw for you to make a CO/TO. And who was the CO/TO for.How did you do it (phone call, face to face, letter?) What was the reaction of the CO/TO Party.Whats life like now? Did the...
View ArticleGramburglar pt 3, update pg 35, OT vent pg 41, 44, update!
mini update Today I was in the back at work filing some papers when someone came in to get a loan. My trainer was out front getting her started. I walked out of the back and bam! there stands MIL. She...
View ArticleMIL insisting on calling baby another name
Hi Everyone, Firstly I appreciate you reading this post. I'll try summarize: - MIL insisting on calling my nearly 6 month old by her middle name, when i make light of what she is doing, she says "It's...
View ArticleCan't believe FIL
When DH called his parents to tell them our baby's gender, FIL's response to the gender reveal was "That's OK." WTF. I want to punch him in the face. On the other hand, I guess FIL won't think of LO as...
View ArticleStressed about family visit *potential trigger*
There's a lot of irrelevant background that I can expand on if needed. My husband and I live across the country from our families. His family is WONDERFUL, but mine is bordering on horrible and just...
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Help me DWILers, you're my only hope! BIG UPDATE PG 19, NOMS PG 31, MORE NOMS...
Ok, BBC has eaten this thing twice, so this is the ultra short version, I can add BG as needed. MIL and DH are planning to talk about their relationship this Friday (meaning, MIL wants to lay a huge...
View Article"You made me cut off my family!"
A year ago SO and I were living with his family. We paid $900 a month to essentially rent a damn room. We argued almost every day because he kept promising that we were going to move, but when it came...
View ArticleFeeling helpless in MIL situation!
We have a three bedroom apt. Its me, my husband and our two boys ages 8&5. We are also expecting a baby girl in November. MIL moved in last November, because she said she wanted to save money to...
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Help me DWILers, you're my only hope! BIG UPDATE PG 19! NOMS PG 31, 37, 66
Ok, BBC has eaten this thing twice, so this is the ultra short version, I can add BG as needed. MIL and DH are planning to talk about their relationship this Friday (meaning, MIL wants to lay a huge...
View ArticleNeed an email template to send to ILs
Tried searching first but the search won't work for some reason. My ILs are planning to be staying with us for a weekend during my 37-40 weeks and they've already indicated that they're hoping that I...
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Hospital Policy
Can I just say that I have been stressing out non-stop regarding family (mostly DHs) wanting to be waiting room warriors when LO comes.....until now. I just found out the hospital I'm delivering at...
View ArticleWhere and how to set boundaries with MIL - VERY LONG
Hi everyone, first time poster here. I've been going around for a week now thinking I need some TO from my MIL and I would love your insight on that. I grew up with a narcissistic mom and saying no...
View ArticleMIL planned dd's birthday party, background throughout, ud 14, 28, 42
So I think I am handling this in a DWIL approved manner, but advice is always welcome. However, what I really need is support because I can feel my spine softening. This week is a crazy week for...
View Articlebreak the news to MIL...update 5.,7,8,11 now baby rabies?? pg 12.
I have been lurking a while, but this is my first post. My MIL has over time (since the twins were born) slowly become my BEC. She says PA things all the time and thinks I should always take her advice...
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