MOO and CO? TO? Or am I being unreasonable?
First time poster but I've been lurking around for awhile now.. My issue is with my MOO. Some basic background, she and my FOO divorced when I was 5. Growing up she was very emotionally, verbally and...
View ArticleI loathe my MIL... first time poster. need advice please.
My MIL is a passive aggressive manipulator. She plays a victim in every fight we have. She undermines me in front of my children, she nags about seeing the kids so we have to take them over to their...
View ArticleAttending wedding with ITO mil-help! Update 3. We survived 4. We are co 5....
Background is on here. I haven't spoken with mil since my kids were bitten several times by her dog a few months ago. I tried to physically protect them from the dog (did not leave due to a death in...
View ArticleOh there you are!! Welcome back spine.
Hello DWILers, Prepare to be dazzled! Not really, but I felt like making an entrance. More than likely my actions are appalling. BG: a few months ago I posted about my MIL going BATSHIT baby crazy upon...
View ArticleMy SIL and MIL complaining about my disabled DD's progress.
Background: Normally my IL's and I have gotten along very well. We've had virtually no problems with them up until this point. My MIL is an Occupational Therapist and my SIL is a nurse. Both are...
View ArticleDad Issues *trigger*
So I've been lerking for a while now and I finally feel like asking for advice. Here it goes... BG: My father. He has never been normal and we have never had a "father-daughter" relationship. My...
View Articlei need some guidance *triggers* ud3, 5, 7, 12-14, 19, 23, 25, 27, 28, 33, 39,...
I haven't been okay in the past few weeks. I'm seeking help for it. I was considering being hospitalized but I don't trust mil with the kids and DH can't. Mil called DH this morning and said they're...
View ArticleBaptism...
Anyone baptizing infant to make partner, SO, parents, or in-Laws happy? Even if you don't believe in infant baptism but just want to keep the peace?
View ArticleWhat should I do with my daughter?
My daughter has mental health issues. She is living with us and in counseling. She has younger siblings who are seeing her bad behavior. She has no friends so no place to go at all if we were to kick...
View ArticleTO sis cell drama- part 2
Quck BG- my sis is the golden child of my narc mom, I'm the scapegoat. She snd my mom are TO after favoritism issues, judgement/criticism of my parenting/children, accusations and screaming toward me,...
View ArticleNot Helpful In-laws--Many Updates
My ILs will be here next month for SIL's baby shower. They will stay with us for 2 nights of their weeklong visit, spending the other nights with both SILs. Every time they stay, I want to rip my hair...
View ArticleThe First Words MIL Ever Said to You
I just remembered this and thought I'd post. I should have known MIL would be my BEC the moment I met her 15 years ago. She said: "I'm STBXDuH's mother. I don't know your name." Charming. Do you...
View ArticleAnd now, my FOO isn't my only problem!
My FOO is insane, but that's not who's the problem right now... Mil came Friday, is is here for a week. SO and I have been together for two years, and I'm just now meeting her. She doesn't have much to...
View ArticleDad is telling me I'm selfish... Am I?
I'm a long time lurker on here and I have a situation on which I could use some advice. My FOO is very close. We spend a good deal of time together and get along quite well. We spend less time together...
View ArticleLarge Gift from inlaws - again with stipulations....
My inlaws are very generous and gave us a large sum of money for our ten year anniversary with the stipulation that we can not use it on a vacation or bills, but can use it on a house project. Part of...
View ArticleFamily drama with my first pregnancy - Need Advice
I originally posted this in a different group, and was advised to try posting in this group instead because the advice was great here. So, even though the Sticky kind of got me nervous, I decided it...
View ArticleTraveling for Christmas
My family lives 400 miles away, my DH's family lives 250 miles away. My parents are pushing 70 and my DH's (divorced) parents are late 50's/early 60's. Before kids we used to go to my family early in...
View ArticleI followed your rules! - card pics 2
Voicemail from father: "Hi, daughter. I'm calling because you told me to call before dropping in. So I'm going to be there at 4, okay? Bye." My response: BH Seriously!?!? ITS MY BIRTHDAY! You "forgot"...
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