BIL just a step too far
My LO is 9 months... So I'm still coming to terms with being a mum. Sorry this a long one! Anyways... In the weekend I finally snapped, my BIL was holding LO and she started to get upset, I stepped...
View ArticleI need some advice!
So my due date is getting closer and closer, so my husband and I had the whole labor talk today and it got me thinking that I really don't want visitors for the first 24 hours of lo being born.. Or...
View ArticleThe best of...Deployment Drama
In light of a few current posts about the crazies that come out during deployments, I say its time for a few stories. I don't have any too serious as I just ignored them after the 48th forwarded email...
View ArticleDoes your MIL tell you how many children you can have?
Ok I had a long story on here but it wasn't getting read carefully and people were assuming things, so I'm just going to try the short version. SO's grandfather wanted us to raise our kids on his...
View ArticleInvitation wording
I'll preface this by saying I'm 22 weeks pregnant. I'm sure that's skewing things, but whatever. My future sil just dropped off her rehearsal dinner invite today. The envelope was addressed to my...
View ArticleHow to gently phrase this?
This turned out longer than I had hoped... My MIL is fine. No boundary stomping, not BSC, I just severely dislike her (or anybody) staying with us because I need a break from company and entertaining...
View ArticleHow to ask when to visit newborn? Not wanting to be crazy inlaw
Maybe I'm overthinking this, but I'm looking for help on how not to become the problematic inlaw myself- My sil is expecting her third child. She is due soon and mil (her mom) and all others in their...
View ArticleLOs grandma is driving me nuts, help?
Okay well LOs grandma gave him oatmeal water. He's only 3 months old. Well I gave her a piece of mind and let her know her baby sitting times are well done. She called SO and tried getting him on her...
View ArticleDad wants to buy my kids pics in exhange for college $- UD 10, dads response
No background on here. I'm no doormat. My parents live 4 hours away. My kid is the only grand kid. A few days ago my texted asking for a picture because my mom had a bad day and it would cheer her up....
View Articleneed help with my FOO *LONG*
I need some help on my FOO. I'm not sure about them. I can't tell if they're boundary stomping or what they are. here's some Background- I have an older sister, older brother and younger sister. my...
View ArticleIt all started with hand me downs...
First, I originally posted on my birth board (12/2014), however, several people suggested I post here to get some additional advice. The backstory: my friends got together and collected hand-me-downs...
View ArticleMom, Debil, Ultrasound Pics, oh my. (baby nom pg 4)
I'm back again. BG: I'm 21 weeks pregnant. At 18w2d, I had my first ultrasound. I received pictures from the ultrasound. This past Saturday, I saw my mom and she asked to see the ultrasound...
View ArticleIt's a TRAP! Share your CTJ/ sit down meeting story here.
I keep seeing people post asking if they should have a come to Jesus meeting with a family member or in law who is causing drama. The answer is always it's a trap! I fully agree these meetings never...
View ArticleThese aren't the ILs you're looking for. UD PG 4, 7, 8, 13, 14, 18, 23
Having been graciously allowed to start a new thread and link my BG (http://community.babycenter.com/post/a52288825/help_me_dwilers_youre_my_only_hope_big_update_pg_19_noms_pg_31_37_66?cpg=67), let's...
View ArticleMom's BDay Dinner.....To go or not to go? UD pg 3, Minor UD pg 8
Brief BG: My NPD (undiagnosed) Mom and I have a strained and distant relationship. As a child she was pretty emotionally abusive/manipulative tome and my ssiblings, with my dad as her enabler who did...
View ArticleOT make sure I'm not forgetting something please x posted
X posted from my birth club as no response. So, I was in town today, I look down at lo and I see green gunk in the corner of his eye. Just a little bit, but obviously conjunctivitis (pink eye). So, I...
View ArticleDH Needs to DEAL with This Woman(MIL) -long *UD email & reply p. 5 (HELP!)
It's time. It's been over 11 years and I just can't take it any more. It's times like these that my MIL feels like the "other woman" in our relationship and it needs to end now. I'm so incredibly...
View ArticleThese aren't the ILs you're looking for. UD PG 4, 7, 8, 13, 14, 18, 23, 29, 33
Having been graciously allowed to start a new thread and link my BG (http://community.babycenter.com/post/a52288825/help_me_dwilers_youre_my_only_hope_big_update_pg_19_noms_pg_31_37_66?cpg=67), let's...
View ArticleBSC MIL....guess I'll be putting the nurses to work tomorrow -_-
SO I am awaiting my phone call to go in for inducment(busy l&d night) and MIL has tomorrow off we told her doc said no visitors allowed. She seemed ok with it yesterday. Well she just called and...
View ArticleNot sure what to do anymore...
Possible triggers. Bg: Mother and I don't have a great relationship. When I was seven years old my sister was born. My mother began to drink. Her boyfriend at the time was a drug addict and a...
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