Should I just not celebrate LO's first birthday??
Hello everyone I made this anonymous account because SO's sister is an enmeshed, boundary stomping, unicorny, entitled BEC. A member of this group actually. She's even posted on here before asking...
View ArticleNot sure what to do anymore...
Possible triggers. Bg: Mother and I don't have a great relationship. When I was seven years old my sister was born. My mother began to drink. Her boyfriend at the time was a drug addict and a...
View ArticleSO forcing his mother on me
Hi every one. First time on this board, I was referred here by my birth club. My SO's mom and I are not particularly close. We've only met like 10 times total. She threw me a baby shower but invited...
View Article"it's your duty to keep it touch with your parents"-long
I lurk here to grow a spine with my ILs but since coming to this page I have confirmed what I always knew- My mom is not normal. Details to prove this point will take many pages so I will provide more...
View ArticleGramburglar pt 3, update pg 35, OT vent pg 41, 44, 63 update!, 71, HUGE...
mini update Today I was in the back at work filing some papers when someone came in to get a loan. My trainer was out front getting her started. I walked out of the back and bam! there stands MIL. She...
View ArticleGot some MIL issues (long) *POSSIBLE TRIGGER*
I've been a member of BBC since the beginning of my pregnancy, but as my screen name states, I am trying to remain anonymous, because I have problems out the wazoo and am quite ashamed I let it get...
View ArticleIt it worth it? BSC SIL
I am very close to MIL and DH's sisters. We are going in a girls trip and I am beyond excited! BSC SIL is of course invited. She doesn't like this place and is already bitching. We all would prefer...
View ArticleHow to tell my lazy mil to help out around the house. *LAST UPDATE* I'M...
Some background info: Mil has diabetes. (she doesn't make an effort to keep under control) she has bone and joint problems from a sedentary lifestyle, stones in her gallbladder.(she will have surgery...
View ArticleAttempting Transition from ITO to LC
I don't have much background on here. If I do, it's certainly not concise so feel free to ask if you need more info. I am seriously considering to attempt the transition from an ITO to LC with my foo....
View Articlecousin tagged me in disgusting fb photos! update pg2
Urgh!! These photos also tagged his grandmother in them! It said it was with him at some botanical gardens. But nope the where pics of his privates!! Ewe!! I unfriended him. Do I need to warn his...
View ArticleMy Sisters 4 Year Old
Made a new sn to hide from my sister on here. Bg: My sister had a crappy husband, he left her several times for different women, well the last time he left her, she magically reconciled and got...
View ArticleReligion" intervention" attack at family reunion
I was raised Mormon. A year and a half ago my husband and I decided to deal with some of our doubts and studied for a long time. We decided for ourselves that we no longer wanted to be mormon so we...
View ArticleBest of trying to make you start solids
I wonder if there is a post about this. MIL or MOO or anyone else trying to convince you or going behind your back trying to start baby on solids. If there is then the GOs can delete this post. So my...
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Low Conflict MIL and Labor
I've lurked awhile, but this is my first post so go easy on me, please. I'm still developing my backbone. My situation isn't what seems typical, on here. My MIL and I get along great. She doesn't...
View ArticleLong and drama filled! need insight on the inlaws. small update pg 4,5
This is going to be long and possibly a bit rambly but I need some outside insight in this situation with my in laws. A few days ago we went to my in laws house because my MIL wanted to spend the day...
View ArticleMom issues--the SIN-tervention ud: 5, 8, 11, 13, 15 (sin-tervention)
Hi DWIL! I'm a longtime lurker, but a first time poster, but Ive read the sticky and everything, so I know the ropes. Here's my BG: My husband is a practicing and devout Muslim. I'm from a "Christian"...
View ArticleIs there room to make an exception or am I OK not to?
I've read this board for awhile mainly because my IL's are insane and I these stories help me keep my spine I'm tact with them. My current situation is with my FOO, and I'm not sure what I should do so...
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MIL wants a baby shower with all of her friends. How do I nicely tell her no?...
Sorry if this is long but I want to give you all appropriate background. DH and I have dated since highschool. Thus I have met a lot of MIL's friends but do not interact with them on a regular basis....
View ArticleMIL planned dd's birthday party, ud 14, 28, 42, 50, 51, 58
So I think I am handling this in a DWIL approved manner, but advice is always welcome. However, what I really need is support because I can feel my spine softening. This week is a crazy week for...
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