What do I do? Urgent help please
First post ever, I'm usually a lurker. I can give more background as needed. My mil is not the worst but she has boundary stomped in the past (unwanted advice, inappropriate 'jokes' about calling cps...
View ArticleExcluded from Thanksgiving
I asked my brother last week what he was doing for thanksgiving and he replied that he was either going to wife's side of the family or staying here and lay around. So gave me the impression that he...
View ArticleIn-laws being extremely dramatic Am I wrong? LONG
LO is the first grandchild for both my parents. We live out of state, so visits from the in-laws are far in between. IL came to visit when LO was 4 weeks, then when she was 6 weeks, we drove 10 hours...
View ArticleMIL thinks this is up for discussion...
Because my husband was fucking JADEing and, when they discussed the issue in question, threw me under the bus. The issue: MIL wants us to live with them when we get out of the military. She wants to...
View Articlehelp kill my unicorn so I'll leave! (Thanksgiving drama)
I lurk frequently on my personal account but since it's easily traceable I made this account that is not so traceable. BG: my LO is 5 months old and a late term preemie. While most babies of his...
View ArticleTacky or BEC?
I'm just all over DWIL today. Anyway, tell me the truth. The debil is what it is. But if MIL posted a side by side comparison of your kid with DH sibling, would it irritate you? Would you find it...
View ArticleSOs mother "forgot" my name!
In your opinion was this done/said on purpose? I'm gonna make this short and to the point. SOs mom ran into my mom earlier today. She asked her "How's Carmen?" My name is Karen! My mom corrected her by...
View ArticleBest of Thanksgiving Drama 2014
So ladies Thanksgiving just passed. Im pretty sure there are some very juicy llama noms. I would love to read all about what happened this year . I don't have a story by the way, im in another country...
View ArticleIs this about control? *trigger* 4,10, 12, 13, 16, 17, 20, 22, 23, 29, 30....
I'm just wondering what's going on with my mom and stepdad. My BG is here: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a51345085/help_with_a_response_update_817_pg2 *Trigger* Since I last posted, I sadly had...
View Article*Trigger* found out via FB. drama for your llamas
First off I hope you had a great thanksgiving. Mine was filled with death. Our very close friend of my husbands father passed away suddenly and then my aunt passed away last night due to a vehicle...
View ArticleTHANKSGIVING UPDATE ! MIL invites herself to my grandmother's funeral and...
Ok ladies, I am just trying to figure out WTF just happened. A little backgorund-- My MIL and I dont' get along, we use to before he "put a ring on it" and she started acting passive agressive towards...
View ArticleBirth board has me doubting myself.
This is my first time posting. I'm quite nervous. Please be gentle. The background is going to be a bit long. I posted this on my birth board, and they told me I'm being selfish. I didn't feel that...
View Article**TRIGGERS throughout**, ED mom UPDATEd
We ended a year long TO with my mother and her partner in August of last year. They live 1800 miles away, but this year for the first time are spending the summer up here. Without making this post...
View ArticleHow should I go on from here? Thanksgiving
Dh's parents live out of state. Thanksgiving is the one holiday where everyone converges on them and the cousins get a chance to see each other. This year dh and dd went alone. We had just had that...
View ArticleRude or BEC. Unicorn back pg1.
Alright y'all know me duhs got a HUGE enmeshed family back home a state away and I am continually annoyed/smothered by them, on very sporadic visits. I feel like they ruined my Thanksgiving. Here's how...
View ArticleHave to make another anonymous post.
I hate that my Duh told my SIL about this site. She is now a member but I don't know her screen name, soo I have to make this post anonymous. As most DUHS on DWIL, my Duh runs and tells mommy...
View ArticleCan this be salvaged?
To start, my mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer in February this year. We have a loooong history of boundary stomping and disrespect toward my husband and our parenting decisions. We were on ELC...
View ArticleBest of Holiday Meals
I have so many of these stories it is insane! In the spirit of the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday I was thinking back at some of the crazy holiday meals I have experienced with the inlaws and my FOO....
View ArticleDoubting myself.
This is my first time posting. I'm quite nervous. Please be gentle. The background is going to be a bit long. I posted this on my birth board, and they told me I'm being selfish. I didn't feel that...
View ArticleMIL wanting all the parenting experiences
My LO is very close to being due for a haircut. My MIL thinks she needs a lock of his hair. I have never known a grandparent to get such privileges. I have asked around in my family and none of the...
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