GIL wearing me down
M H's grandmother is one of those older women who thinks she does no wrong. She also has zero boundaries. On thanksgiving I literally, LITERALLY, had to chase her down and yell at her to give me my son...
View ArticleFamily "beat downs” UD7,10,12,14,16,21,37,47,53,63,79,92,99,106,110,112,119 -...
I don't even know where to start. I'm a lurker, and I've been slowly strengthening my spine by reading dwil, thinking that I could take some of the advice, apply it to my own situation, and since my...
View ArticleMother-in-law is a PROBLEM.......
I love her a lot. But she thinks that I'm crazy or I just a push over or something. But she thinks that because I'm having a csection that I'm not going to want to deal with my own newborn baby. So she...
View ArticleI'm annoyed. UD on ILs, 78, 80, 86, 91, 93, 95, 96, 100, 102, 105, 107
I'm not too sure if I can link the BG, but one of the GOs said it was okay to update. In one of our sessions, my therapist suggested to DuH that he should call his parents and let them know holidays...
View ArticleDictator Mil ends now! UD: p 8, 18, 35, 55, 64, 74, 84. Holiday Card Horror p98
Bg: before I found this site. DH and I were doormats. Politely rugsweeping mil's ridiculousness. She asked/told us: what we could and couldn't name our baby, to add a second middle name in (she wanted...
View ArticleFamily trying to rugsweep--Update pg 2, 4, 5, 6, 10, 12,13, 14, 16, 17, 18, 28
Background: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a42351637/bec_ud_pg._4_5_trigger_7_9_13_18_20_21_23_26_28_duh_29_package Okay. So, the package mentioned at the end of the background thread was...
View ArticleNew MIL
So my FIL just got married. We have had some issues with boundaries in the past but mostly once DH talked to him things have gotten better. They got married this last weekend after dating for 3 1/2...
View Articleam I weirded out for no reason?
I cant seem to get my brain around this. My lo is 4 weeks old and my mil has been real weird. It started prior to her birth, my mil talked about how she was making a nursery and stuff. Well I could see...
View ArticleMother vs. Grandmother.
Ok so my wife is requiring me to post this and listen to feedback. This is long and tedious and will require alot of attention. My wife and my mother have never liked each other, which is fine...
View Articlewould you go?
I will try to keep this short but yall know how that goes. My sister has borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, and depression/anxiety/stress that causes her to take all kinds of meds. We...
View ArticleNeeding some DWIL help
Not for me, necessarily. My DH has turned DUUUUUUH. I'm over 32 weeks pregnant, and I have made it explicitly clear FROM THE BEGINNING OF MY PREGNANCY (totally yelling for effect) that I only want DH...
View ArticleMy Girlfriend referred me to this site... I need to be a better man and stand...
I don't know alot of abbreviations here So I'll probably write everything in full. I Have a wonderful girlfriend, I love her so much.. we have been dating for a year now and recently found out she is...
View ArticleFestivus 2014: The Airing of Grievances (aka Official Vent Thread)
Let's face it, it's the holidays. There will be venting. While DWILs is long-touted as "not a vent board (read the sticky)", we understand that not everyone is going to take the time to read two pages...
View ArticleUpsetDaddy cont.UD 3,6,8,12,18,39,41,42,49,55,67,70,76,78,84
BG:http://community.babycenter.com/post/a51615763/need_help_things_came_to_a_head_newest_ud_7779909395101110115?cpg=128 This will be long. Well I am back again with another update in my continuing...
View ArticleNon-Unicorn Eyes: P/A Email from fMIL would you BH still?
I need some non-unicorns to look at this email and give me your opinions. BG: fMIL is a monster - she is a control freak, manipulative, pathological liar, disrespectful to me, boundary stomper etc....
View ArticleReading Between the Lines *long
So I want for you all to decipher the meaning of what my auntIL said to me last night. It's at the bottom, this will be a long post. I have my own feelings on this situation but I just want to see if...
View ArticleMIL took LO to see santa
Ok, so my MIL (technically future MIL) took LO, who is 2 months, to see santa today without telling me. i wasn't planning on taking him until next year because i honestly didn't have money for...
View ArticleChristmas Dinner *trigger*
Hi all! Long time hugger first time poster. I am hoping that you can help me. My DH and I have been together for 10 years and have three children together. We used to split Christmas into thirds,...
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It finally my turn...... woo hoo
A little back ground... I have a sister in law who is a lying liar that lies. I don't know her very well but everyone in her family has warned me that she will lie about anything from her hair color to...
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